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bilayu
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July 03, 2009 - 01:21 PM |
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Don't know how many single fathers are here in Shanghai..I'm one, raised my daughter alone since she was 3 months old, 6 years old now, and I know of a couple others, just thought it would be cool to maybe all get together somehow, have some drinks, let the kids plays or something..
There's always single mother groups and stuff etc etc..So figured it could be cool if we did something every now and again, if there's any other fathers like us... |
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Shangstar
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July 03, 2009 - 02:03 PM |
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not a father, but a great idea mate!! Am sure there are some around, including chinese perhaps?
Why not get the single mother groups together with the single father groups? You never know what might happen........! |
_________________ Charles Darwin: Differences between humans are differences in degree, not differences in kind |
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GirlatWork
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July 03, 2009 - 08:52 PM |
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Just a ramdom thought... hard to imagine a man could be single for 6 years.. especially in China! |
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victorinchina
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July 03, 2009 - 09:11 PM |
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^ Nowhere was it said OP have stayed here 6 years.
@OP, as Shangstar says, great idea. Good luck with it. |
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Rumpelstiltskin
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July 03, 2009 - 09:52 PM |
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My brother is single father for like 12 years and he gets to shag so many single mothers, basically he could shag one new every week...
I was thinking about borrowing his son sometimes and pretend I am the single father.
He told me he is not going to marry EVER again - now whenever he wants he can call some of those gazillions of single mothers. The rest of the time he can do whatever he wants... |
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8lrr8
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July 03, 2009 - 10:15 PM |
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Rumpelstiltskin
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July 03, 2009 - 10:18 PM |
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| 8lrr8 wrote: |
| ^ does he live in china? |
No, I was merely commenting on the "hard to imagine a man could be single for 6 years" |
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Adrienne
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July 04, 2009 - 03:24 PM |
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bilayu
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July 06, 2009 - 06:13 PM |
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Everyone, what i mean by single father is not actually being single in a sense of having a girlfriend..It means fathers who raise their kids by themselves, have custody of their kids, as I do, either through divorce, widower, etc...I've been here for 6 years, of course I have a girlfriend..Basically fathers whose children live with them or spend a lot of time with them.. |
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DrShanghai
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July 06, 2009 - 07:14 PM |
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You know it is tough on the kids, no matter how you cut it. I think it is a great idea. and good for the kids to have peers to interact with.
rumpledforeskin, Pretty shallow thinking of it as a Shag Opportunity. great role model for his kids mate! |
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