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Morgoth
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When considering who to marry believe it or not guys consider more than just beauty. Shanghai women are certainly beautiful, but there are many beautiful women all over China. What makes Shanghai women different is not that they live in Shanghai, but their attitudes towards relationships. Let me first say, this is not 100%, but in general many Shanghai women do have these expectations. First, many expect the man to have already paid for an apartment, secondly they expect the man to do a lot of the housework and cleaning, they expect their parents to care for any children they have, they expect the man to worship them and pamper them and buy them whatever they want, and they like to be the boss over the man. So what is the real advantage of marrying a beautiful Shanghai girl instead of a beautiful Dongbei or Sichuan girl for example? Especially in the case of xiang xia (countryside) people they don't have so much money, so their expectations are lower and they work a lot harder at home to please their man. It is much more difficult to make a Shanghai girl happy, maybe you would need to buy a car, while the xiang xia girl would be happy if you bought a motor-scooter, they appreciate the little things in life more. So with all the high demands of the Shanghai girls.......what's the advantage of marrying one? Is there any? |
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Bohica
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Oct 07, 2009 - 07:04 PM |
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If you have to ask you can't afford her. |
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Shangstar
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Oct 07, 2009 - 08:36 PM |
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Never marry a Shanghainese girl. Too often they and their mothers need a damn good slap in the face. If you do marry one, you'll want to spend a lot of time with the father who's probably out whoring in KTV all the time rather than face the two b*tches back home. Seriously, dont do it. |
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condesa
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Oct 07, 2009 - 09:38 PM |
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| Parkson18single wrote: |
| gl am a shanghai woman, so according the love pains i had suffered from a nazi german, then i just wished i could relate with a normal mature man to live together in town, it can without any lies , but once someone wanna leave me away or divorce from me, please tell me earlier, cause i just wanna get less hurt from here someone and i just wanna forecast everything about love or relationship or marriage badly firstly understandably by myself, so i can avoid the troubles lessly and controllably in my further days, cause you never can know what will happen lordly by yourself, so any materials are out of my mind, but please be honest to treat your shanghai woman,I have to say. |
mmm, if you improve your English and you drop the 'wanna' perhaps it will be easier to find a mature man  |
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condesa
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Oct 07, 2009 - 09:43 PM |
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| Morgoth wrote: |
| When considering who to marry believe it or not guys consider more than just beauty. Shanghai women are certainly beautiful, but there are many beautiful women all over China. What makes Shanghai women different is not that they live in Shanghai, but their attitudes towards relationships. Let me first say, this is not 100%, but in general many Shanghai women do have these expectations. First, many expect the man to have already paid for an apartment, secondly they expect the man to do a lot of the housework and cleaning, they expect their parents to care for any children they have, they expect the man to worship them and pamper them and buy them whatever they want, and they like to be the boss over the man. So what is the real advantage of marrying a beautiful Shanghai girl instead of a beautiful Dongbei or Sichuan girl for example? Especially in the case of xiang xia (countryside) people they don't have so much money, so their expectations are lower and they work a lot harder at home to please their man. It is much more difficult to make a Shanghai girl happy, maybe you would need to buy a car, while the xiang xia girl would be happy if you bought a motor-scooter, they appreciate the little things in life more. So with all the high demands of the Shanghai girls.......what's the advantage of marrying one? Is there any? |
Soooo, you are from the countryside and you are offering yourself as a better option than Shanghainese women?, because you are cheaper?.
Maybe you should re-write your post to make more clear your intentions  Just my 2cents |
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Goosie
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Oct 07, 2009 - 10:42 PM |
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This thread . . . me likey! |
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Morgoth
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Oct 07, 2009 - 11:26 PM |
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Wow.......Condesa..........you shouldn't give people advice when you can't even figure out that "Morgoth" is a male name and not Asian......... how many countryside people in China use the name "Morgoth"? Next time turn your brain on before you speak. |
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dfoo
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Oct 07, 2009 - 11:57 PM |
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Advantage... you should like a shanghainese. |
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Morgoth
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Oct 08, 2009 - 12:16 AM |
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Dfoo................
Why?
Why have a girl who expect too much from you when you can have a girl who doesn't expect much? Isn't it easier to have less pressure? |
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dfoo
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Oct 08, 2009 - 12:47 AM |
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I don't marry to gain some advantage... that sounds like a business arrangement; which is, of course, how many Shanghainese feel about marriage. |
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BenJ
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Oct 08, 2009 - 02:43 AM |
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Shanghainese women dress better.
And that's all. They're spoilt, selfish and anything bad that may come to your mind.
Don't marry them. If you're a chinese countryside girl, don't try to fight against them, I would never like a Shanghainese, this is not because of this money stuff, this is only about personnality : all this princess thing is frickin' annoying. They keep speaking about themselves and wathever you may do, this is not good enough. Even for friendship.
Don't ever get close to them, these witches should stay single all their life. |
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Morgoth
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Bohica
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Oct 08, 2009 - 06:36 PM |
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Nutella, I think the original poster was referring to city of shanghai, not the planet of shanghai where you reside |
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ziccawei
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Oct 09, 2009 - 12:48 AM |
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Best thread ever..... |
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Moroes
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Oct 09, 2009 - 12:58 AM |
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You know when ever in a club you see a line up of ducks the ladies ordering them are usually Shanghainese. They play a lot behind their husbands back.
So the advantage is that you will not feel guilty cheating on them because they are doing the same thing! |
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ziccawei
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Outrageous!! |
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Iceberg
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Moroes
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Oct 09, 2009 - 03:59 PM |
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| man, you always get up so early, but can you support yourself or your girl friend when one of you suffer the hardship from those accident? My friend once her father suffered the cancer and then my friend his boy friend just disappeared from my fiend's life, so this kind man is so mean and he just wanted to relate with my friend was just because of sex and i am going to write and talk about it in my billingual blog, so sorry, i know my words will be deleted, so if you can't do anything for your girl, then don't destroy her computer for your stupidity, all women need a real man to talk with then, all women need not a little boy to fool then around by those little men their insane sex requirement, bye and please delete my words as you need it now. |
Pretty sure he disappeared because she tried to force him to pay for all the hospital bills. Probably only knew her for a few weeks and suddenly a big expensive bill was being forced on him, DUH He ran away! |
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caso
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Oct 09, 2009 - 05:44 PM |
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this topic used to have big potential. now, not anymore |
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Bohica
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Oct 09, 2009 - 08:23 PM |
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nutella has a way of bringing down the house. You can almost picture her is some funky bathrobe just pounding away the keys with a voodoo doll of that bald brazilian cat right next to her. tick..tick..tick..tick..tick |
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rayne
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Oct 12, 2009 - 09:41 PM |
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How come her English is getting back to the unbreakable coded Chinglish? Last time I checked the forum she seemed to have made some progress? |
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bougie
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Oct 12, 2009 - 10:11 PM |
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hammerforlife
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Oct 13, 2009 - 10:31 AM |
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| How come her English is getting back to the unbreakable coded Chinglish? Last time I checked the forum she seemed to have made some progress? |
Yes when she used her phone to post she didn't have access to her "translation" software so she was understandable. Sadly she is now back to her main computer ......... 
How has she managed 1093 posts with this ID without being banned? |
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Marakanis
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Oct 13, 2009 - 10:56 AM |
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I was pretty sure she was banned for a while... |
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hammerforlife
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Oct 13, 2009 - 10:58 AM |
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I think she is permanently banned just too dumb to understand that it means she is not meant to post anymore. |
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