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Post  Posted: June 03, 2005 - 12:27 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: Support groups for expat wives in Pudong

Any support groups or gatherings for expat wives in Pudong? I'm from Singapore, new to Shanghai.
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Post  Posted: June 03, 2005 - 02:21 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Hi Newbebe,
You can try the Community Centre : www.communitycenter.cn or look through this site for groups tht you may be able to join. The hard copy of this magazine is available at most of the top hotels http://www.cityweekend.com.cn/en/shanghai. There is also a Ladies Friedship group that meets for lunch organised by carol. Just look through some of the posts.
Good luck.
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Post  Posted: June 03, 2005 - 05:16 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

What I notice is that people tend to attract a like minded groups friends and kind of act as a support group. Of course, its not quite as structured as some groups that are more oriented toward emotional support or therapy. There is also a lot of room here ( in Shanghai and especially through the board here ) for individuals to organize their own circle of contacts for whatever purpose. Some people have started the Young Expat Coffee meeting, the Ladies Friendship group, and more like it just by being willing to organize and invite other folks that might be interested in the same thing.
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and thank you for providing such good platform for people to link together!

however, i think it's the minorities(women and youth)are talking now! for instance, the Wednesday at Malone's seems to be for guy-oriented bar-going type(no objections), and moms, working or not working, probably not able to go to the Saturday coffee meeting because of kids, so a kind of group for them will be formed which they have subjects in common.

One thing off this topic: I posted a question to you on the speed of this website, recently I found out the speed has been improved. Did you change ISP again? or did you use proxy server? or should I ask this question in another forum? Very Happy
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I wa sthinking the same thing there dosnt seem to be any womens groups in pudong. Maybe we should start one up! what do you all think????

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Hi Newbebe, I'm from Singapore too! Will arrive in Shanghai soon with my husband and two young kids...

As Marydoll posted, there doesn't seem to be any support groups for expat wives/ moms in Pudong. I think it will be great if we start one ourselves!

How about meeting up on the 24th (Fri) or 25th (Sat) of June? In a shopping mall in Pudong or a picnic somewhere...em... is the weather too hot for that?
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That would be great friday 24th is good for me, i think it may be too hot for a picnic but we could meet up in one of the malls or starbucks.

Pudong needs some kind of support group for women so hopefully we can get one started.

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Hi Marydoll and all,

Shall we meet on the 24th of June, Fri, then? Say 11.30am brunch at Gino Cafe at the Super Brand Mall? It's on the 5th Floor and if I can remember, fairly roomy and casual.

Will be bringing my 4 year old daughter along...
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Hello, if I will still be in Shanghai at that time (I planned for holidays), I'd love to join you, ladies... let's see.
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Can I join in too?? I stay in Pudong and have a 3.5 year old daughter, but I won't be bringing her along then as she will be in school.
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Sure! Will see you all then on the 24th!
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Post  Posted: June 06, 2005 - 02:27 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Hi All,

That is a great idea, count me in on 24th June. Would love to meet up with you !
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Am so tempted to come all the way from Puxi to meet you guys, really! Hmmm...
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I will be there Glw, Yippee at last we poor souls in Pudong don't have to go across the river. If it turns out ok we could make it a monthly or fortnighly thing what do you think???
Rennie i'm in Jinqiao too. wre abouts are you???

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Hello,

sorry my English is not so good.

There ist a group in Jinqiao. International mother ... something like that. I can try to find out the telephone number.

Can I also come? How we can see us?
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Sure.... the more the merrier! Like Marydoll posted, maybe we could turn this into a fortnightly or monthly event!

Is anyone planning to drop by the cafe before the 24th? Maybe we can make reservations under 'expat wives group' or something like that. If not, I'll call the cafe a week before the 24th to secure us some seats!

Lina, hope you can join us!
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Lets try and get as many as possible, to go on 24th and i'm sure we can make this work.
Meihong i'm in Jinqiao too but i've never heard of the internation mother group.

Also does everyone realise that the kids are finished school, so people with kids will have to bring them me included??????
Looking forward to meeeting you all.

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I will try but the baby has class that day Sad ... Marydoll, and everyone else, you can join the International Mothers Support group, email Kirsty Hamilton at Imsgshanghai@hotmail.com to be on their mailing list...they meet once a month...a great way to meet other mummies Smile

ps. Newbebe, this is the group I am referring to.
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Hello there,

I am staying in Jinqiao as well..and I think it would be really nice to have gatherings on this side of town...unfortunately, I will be in Singapore on 24th and will not be able to meet you all..do keep me updated on future gatherings..maybe we can start a mailing list?? What do u think?

Have a good weekend, ladies. Smile

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Post  Posted: June 12, 2005 - 11:21 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Don't worry wenlee hopefully we can make a regular thing of this and maybe start a mailing list. Hve a good holiday and hopefully see you when you get back.

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Post  Posted: June 12, 2005 - 11:54 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I will be moving to Shanghai in the next couple of months and would love to join your group. Also it seems as though the Expat moms live in Pudong, is that right? Smile
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Hey all, welcome to shanghai, I'm from Singapore, and we are here for a yr already. So glad to see so many mommies in Pudong. I would love to meet up with u gals and kids. I have 2 kids, 3yrs old boy and 16 mths old girl. But will only be bringing my girl since my boy will be in sch. wow, looks like going to be quite a big grp for this meeting.

P/S: Thanks Lina for informing me abt this forum. Hey Newbebe, Lina mentioned to me abt u too.
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marydoll and wenlee, I like your idea of keeping a mailing list....

I've set up an account with hotmail for us. I guess for those of us meeting on the 24th, we can just exchange email addresses then. Those who are not able to come on the 24th and would like to join us in our future meetings/ activities, please email momsinpudong@hotmail.com. Is that ok with everyone?
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I have emailed you glw, but i think maybe a thread on the announcements would be good.
check the announcements thread everyone.

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Post  Posted: June 16, 2005 - 09:36 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Hi All

Its so wonderful to keep this thread going. Lets hope we can make this a successful one ! C u on the 24th.

Hi Clara,
Lina told me about you too Smile Look forward to meet you next week. I will be bring my little monster along.
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