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Occult
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July 18, 2004 - 11:19 PM |
 
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Hi,
I am arriving 5th August in Shanghai and was wondering how a new expat goes about establishing a dating life with chinese girls?
Upon arrival, I will not know many, so how does one get into the dating scene? Is it like most places, where you just have to be brave and approach a stranger at a nightclub or bar? *gulp* haha 
or do you wait for them to approach you at the bar? mmm haha
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yu888
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Location: ZhongShanParkArea SH
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July 19, 2004 - 10:06 AM |
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once you get here, you will likely find things are not as simple as they seem at home. The majority of women here do NOT speak English. Of those who do, a large portion are used to using that ability to get what they want. Not all are bad, but the sample size that the average westerner will really get a chance to know, given communication issues, tends to skew on more "bad girls" than good; THAN the actual full population. Thus you will read more complaints about the local women here in Shanghai.
If you want for them to approach you at a bar, you may get laid, and you may have to pay, but its a bit doubtful that it wouid me more meaningful than that. Just depends on what one is looking for I guess. Good luck! |
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kristofdpx
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Oct 31, 2008 - 11:17 AM |
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EDITED: Stop spamming the site or you will get banned. |
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p1atl10
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Oct 31, 2008 - 11:54 AM |
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Give it a Frakkin rest will you!!!!!
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Mamas!!! |
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CrystalRock
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Oct 31, 2008 - 05:24 PM |
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| how a new expat goes about establishing a dating life with chinese girls? |
"A expat" with "Chinese girls"? What are you looking for ? |
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fanfan1
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Oct 31, 2008 - 07:18 PM |
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occult blood..... |
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SnappySammy
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Oct 31, 2008 - 10:55 PM |
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Must be a Halloween Thing this post is 4 years old.. |
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findus
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And I bet Occult still hasn't been laid. |
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SnappySammy
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Nov 01, 2008 - 03:21 AM |
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He's still waiting at the Bar for someone to pick him up....Life is Grand |
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p1atl10
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Nov 01, 2008 - 07:09 AM |
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The little elfs removed the "Dating Site" spam above my post... |
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SnappySammy
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Is that your story? guess after 4 years you're still sticking to it.... |
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josal
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Nov 03, 2008 - 05:42 PM |
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well...guess it is very easy, but i should kindly remind you, what kind of girl do u wannt to go out with?, if just for fun and not so serious, go to some bar or pub to find, invite her to have a drink, ask her out, sweattalk her....
usually, you will not be refused....trust me.
But the pre-requsite is, she must speak English or at least can understand what you said, or it will be boring. |
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Goosie
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^Yeah, "sweattalk" her. That gets 'em every time. |
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bloomark
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"Losers whine about their best, winners go home and fcuk the prom queen."---Sean Connery to Nicolas Cage on How To Do Your Best. |
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That_Chinese_Girl
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Nov 03, 2008 - 08:25 PM |
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^ In Blew's case, change "prom queen" to "Mark". |
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bloomark
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Nov 03, 2008 - 08:39 PM |
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Oh, yes, you are absolutely right, you sorry sad little turd. |
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That_Chinese_Girl
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Nov 03, 2008 - 08:40 PM |
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And what are you whining about this time? |
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bloomark
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Nov 03, 2008 - 08:42 PM |
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The only thing I'll be whining about is that you finally demoted yourself from trash to turd.
Rejoiciousmentfully! |
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That_Chinese_Girl
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Nov 03, 2008 - 08:51 PM |
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| Rejoiciousmentfully! |
What the fuck does this mean? |
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acerola
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SnappySammy
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Lost and confused on Shanghai Expat Forum |
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