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DesertSpider
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May 12, 2008 - 06:04 PM |
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| Post subject: Which do you consider 'safer' - bareback or wrapped ? |
Curious if you had to choose between having unprotected oral sex or protected intercourse, which would you consider to be the safer of the two ?
Here's some hypotheticals for you:
Scenario 1: Oral sex, unprotected, and the girl is known to have herpes or vaginal intercourse, protected, and the girl is knows to have HIV / AIDS.
Which lesser of the two evils, if you had to, would you choose ?
Scenario 2: Oral sex, unprotected, and the status of the girl's medical history is unknown or vaginal intercourse, protected, and also the girl's medical history is unknown.
How about now ? |
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BONNIE
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Joined: June 17, 2005
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May 12, 2008 - 07:01 PM |
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First Lady Boys, now this......what's wrong DS - does it hurt when you pee ? |
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DesertSpider
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May 12, 2008 - 09:50 PM |
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Haha, no, but what I don't understand is this - why are you so incessant on following me around the board trying to herd me into some 'upstanding' corner of magical rules, morals and values you've created ?
a) why do you care ?
b) what possesses you to click on the thread if you know you aren't going to like what's inside ?
c) what does it matter that my mind wanders through eccentric issues and topics ? and I want to discuss crazy things ?
d) how does that affect you ?
e) see where this is going..... ?
My online persona(s) have absolutely nothing to do with how much of an 'upstanding' guy I am, nor my moral compass, nor moral character, nor real world views, nor [this list could get really long, you sure you need me to name them all ?]....
So again, I ask you - if my questions frighten you, maybe you should cease reading them or feeling compelled to chime in with non-value added content or lack of simple debate.
I don't need any help being an adult, thanks.
If you need to know the whole backdrop / back story (for your edification obviously): I had to babysit a 'younger' chap and entertain him [take him to restaurants, clubs, etc.] while he was here. He's an ABC and is fluent, but has spent little time in Sh - it was his idea that we hit TRL for a couple nights b/c he wanted to say that he saw it. Have I justified enough to you yet ? |
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Andreas
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May 12, 2008 - 10:08 PM |
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| First Lady Boys, now this......what's wrong DS - does it hurt when you pee ? |
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Dazza
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May 13, 2008 - 01:18 AM |
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Who likes taking a bath with their socks on? |
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BONNIE
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May 13, 2008 - 08:33 AM |
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DS, stop being so sensitive......paranoia comes to mind....what, I can't post in any forum where you've already been ?
How childish is that.........you need a holiday lad. |
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Goosie
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May 13, 2008 - 08:49 AM |
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DS, methinks the gentleman doth prοtest too much. If you really don't want to stir up controversy, why post such things? Admit it - you're having fun and yanking a few chains in the process. |
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Juan_Tamad
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May 13, 2008 - 08:50 AM |
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With thise choices...hmm
Self support will be better |
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8lrr8
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May 13, 2008 - 09:09 AM |
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contraction of HIV from (vaginal) intercourse is remarkably low even w/o a condom. no idea what the rate is for herpes, but i'll bet it's higher than HIV. |
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DesertSpider
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May 13, 2008 - 10:39 AM |
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DS, stop being so sensitive......paranoia comes to mind....what, I can't post in any forum where you've already been ?
How childish is that.........you need a holiday lad. |
I don't think I'm the one with 'thin skin'..... just because I post some controversial things doesn't mean that it's a signal for you to dump on the topic.
If you can't discuss the issue, does that make me the childish one, methinks not. |
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DesertSpider
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May 13, 2008 - 10:41 AM |
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| Goosie wrote: |
| DS, methinks the gentleman doth prοtest too much. If you really don't want to stir up controversy, why post such things? Admit it - you're having fun and yanking a few chains in the process. |
Fine, everyone is entitled to their own opinion - I'll give you that, and yes, I do post some outlandish things to see what type of answers I get from people - not trash talk, flaming or bashing.
People don't feel like playing along with the hypotheticals, why play at all then ? |
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TaiShan
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May 13, 2008 - 10:58 AM |
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i would not go to TRL without a box of Trojans! full stop mate. there is only one way with a lady of the night and that's "no way".
a bj would be ok i guess but why not make it fun for him/her as well and give them some banana or strawberry flavoured dome? firstly to protect yourself and secondly to get some deep throat!
although i've heard them banana flavoured ones are not that hot. |
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tintindeo
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May 13, 2008 - 11:01 AM |
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First, if you atarted an issue by some stuff controyersial, you don't have the authority to tell others what they should do and what they should not.
Seconf, if you did say something controversial, please don't ask them not to dump around your topic.
Third, if you really have some wierd question in your mind up to be resolved, you'd better try harder yourself than inquire others irrelevent. |
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DesertSpider
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May 13, 2008 - 11:13 AM |
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How is it SO many people have an opinion about everything under the sun except the OP ? So much time wasted blabbing on and on and on and on about personal advice and flaming and general other bs........ is it really that hard just to read a post, think about it and answer the question...... is it ? |
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Buzzd
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May 13, 2008 - 12:30 PM |
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BONNIE
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May 13, 2008 - 12:34 PM |
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OK OP
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Curious if you had to choose between having unprotected oral sex or protected intercourse, which would you consider to be the safer of the two ?
Here's some hypotheticals for you:
Scenario 1: Oral sex, unprotected, and the girl is known to have herpes or vaginal intercourse, protected, and the girl is knows to have HIV / AIDS.
Which lesser of the two evils, if you had to, would you choose ?
Scenario 2: Oral sex, unprotected, and the status of the girl's medical history is unknown or vaginal intercourse, protected, and also the girl's medical history is unknown.
How about now ?
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Scenario 1 : Neither - too much risk either way - say no.
Scenario 2 : The second choice is normal risk - many ONS like this.
Unprotected sex in any form is stupid. |
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BONNIE
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May 13, 2008 - 12:43 PM |
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I think it's time we had a "Boys Own" Forum all on it's own.
This forum is Dating, Singles and Relationships but during the last year it seems to have just degenerated into pin ups, sexual technique and guys accusing the locals of hunting white cock.
I am sure many posters have interest in Dating, Singles and Relationships but not to the extent that "How to shag a ladyboy", " Taking up the tail pipe" and such like subjects are within that category.
I think a "Boys Own - Enter at your own peril" forum would allow the boys to go steamy or seamy without the Dating, Singles and Relationships section becoming X rated. |
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CK1
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May 13, 2008 - 12:51 PM |
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Sheesh DS, the first scenario is like that question 'Drown or Burn alive, which way would you prefer to go?' haha
Scenario two, protection protection protection.
For those who want to learn about these types of things, there is an excellent website ran by doctors that you should check out;
www.thebody.com |
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DesertSpider
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May 13, 2008 - 01:07 PM |
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| CK1 wrote: |
| Sheesh DS, the first scenario is like that question 'Drown or Burn alive, which way would you prefer to go?' haha |
That was precisely the type of question I wanted to ask. |
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DesertSpider
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May 13, 2008 - 01:08 PM |
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OK OP
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Curious if you had to choose between having unprotected oral sex or protected intercourse, which would you consider to be the safer of the two ?
Here's some hypotheticals for you:
Scenario 1: Oral sex, unprotected, and the girl is known to have herpes or vaginal intercourse, protected, and the girl is knows to have HIV / AIDS.
Which lesser of the two evils, if you had to, would you choose ?
Scenario 2: Oral sex, unprotected, and the status of the girl's medical history is unknown or vaginal intercourse, protected, and also the girl's medical history is unknown.
How about now ?
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Scenario 1 : Neither - too much risk either way - say no.
Scenario 2 : The second choice is normal risk - many ONS like this.
Unprotected sex in any form is stupid. |
Hmm... so if I ask a question that states: if you HAD to choose and you answer with neither, are you really patronizing the effort here or are you still spinning your version of the topic ? |
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DesertSpider
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May 13, 2008 - 01:12 PM |
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I think it's time we had a "Boys Own" Forum all on it's own.
This forum is Dating, Singles and Relationships but during the last year it seems to have just degenerated into pin ups, sexual technique and guys accusing the locals of hunting white cock.
I am sure many posters have interest in Dating, Singles and Relationships but not to the extent that "How to shag a ladyboy", " Taking up the tail pipe" and such like subjects are within that category.
I think a "Boys Own - Enter at your own peril" forum would allow the boys to go steamy or seamy without the Dating, Singles and Relationships section becoming X rated. |
I agree with Bonnie here, since there isn't a place to talk openly about 'racy' topics - maybe certain new sections or really forum sub-topics need to be instituted. That way the people that want to talk about 'crazy' things can have their own corner to drivel in and those that are insanely committed to clicking on every link ever posted can have their divide.
Some people can't stand the heat, but don't have sense enough not to enter the kitchen in the first place.
I'll second this proposal, but I'll also predict that it will have no effect whatsoever and the people that oppose such information and discussion will be right there slamming it the same day it opens. |
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DesertSpider
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May 13, 2008 - 01:15 PM |
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And for the record I don't think I regularly mask or intentionally deceive anyone when I post.... it's not like the thread title is: "Free Candy, Come Inside for Your Free Piece" and really it is all about molesting kids or something...
Some people need to take responsibility for their own forum browsing............. |
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sbergman
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May 13, 2008 - 01:22 PM |
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Is there an ignore button for forum topics? |
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CK1
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May 13, 2008 - 01:31 PM |
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Its a rather silly question DS given only two options! No one would ever answer that.
Why don't you answer it, and please notice how stupid it sounds....
Would you a). Like a blowjob from someone with herpes
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b). shag someone you know has Aids (but with a condom so its a-ok!) |
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Nathalie25
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May 13, 2008 - 01:46 PM |
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but no value on this, means nothing, so why people like doing the things which it only means nothing in life?
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