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angelus512
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June 30, 2008 - 03:33 PM |
 
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Ok to those who know me I'm still kicking (thank god). Recently came back from my overseas trip back home and I'm still confronted with the reality of Shanghai life.
Interesting to see how easy most people seem to think it is to pickup Shanghai girls which I'm not necessarily disputing. Each to their own thoughts/experiences.
But I must just be looking in all the wrong places or just not have enough time 
Been to a few bars once or twice but most of the girls I found I wasn't entirely sure whether they were hookers or not lol
I just don't seem to be able to find the time to get to meet local girls. Everytime I finish work and I contemplate going out somewhere I'm soooo god damn tired.
Seriously I don't know how some of you guys manage to find the time to balance work life and personal time.
Also most of the bars I've managed to locate myself in so far are more of the techno/doof doof variety which isn't really my flavour.
See lots of pretty chinese girls on the street in my travels to various meetings.....its starting to drive me INSANE. Lots of girls here are just smoking hot.
Be nice if I could meet one decent attractive Shanghai girl that understands that sometimes I am a busy busy man.
Any suggestions about where such a creature exists? 
i'm 26 years old so you guys know so not like.....50+ or something. So age appropriate suggestions would be awesome.
Also on the off chance any of those sexy girls I pass in the street read this just send me a message or something. |
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Nathalie25
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June 30, 2008 - 04:30 PM |
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First I have to say that I am also busy in studying and finishing my studies in my life, second I am not you, so I don't know what you really want when you look for your girl to date or to relate with in nowadays, I mean if you look for your girl for sex, then here has no any positive way to help you on it, and if you look for a serious realtionship or even a long term relationship for yourself, then I suggest that you should not just waste your time on internet to search for your requirement for days to nights in Shanghaiexpat, next but very last is that you should tell us more about yourself and even post your pic in here to show us that you really have your quality to hook your girl for your love or not in your next second and this may make sense in this Summer Monday afternoon, yeah,Cheers, a kiss it just sealed in your face,over~~~~~~~~ |
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8lrr8
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June 30, 2008 - 04:44 PM |
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use what u're using to post this question. go online. |
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Nathalie25
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June 30, 2008 - 04:52 PM |
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man, I am not you, you are looking for a girl to relate with, I am not doing that, this is what our difference is~~~~~~~~~~~ |
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Nathalie25
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June 30, 2008 - 04:52 PM |
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man, I am not you, you are lookg for a girl to relate with, I am not doing that, this is what our difference is~~~~~~~~~~~ |
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Nathalie25
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June 30, 2008 - 04:53 PM |
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man, I am not you, you are looking for a girl to relate with, I am not doing that, this is what our difference is~~~~~~~~~~~ |
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angelus512
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June 30, 2008 - 04:55 PM |
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i'd post a pic but i'm fair spastic. Not quite sure how. |
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LifeMage
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June 30, 2008 - 05:01 PM |
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Here's an idea....when you see one of those hot looking girls on the street,
you say "hello" instead of just walking past wondering why you never meet them....duh!?   |
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angelus512
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June 30, 2008 - 05:13 PM |
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Never been one for the random street-corner walk up so to speak. Plus usually in a rush but ur point is taken. |
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Nathalie25
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June 30, 2008 - 05:43 PM |
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Sounds like a pimp king, ~~~~~~~~~ |
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HDXLCR
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June 30, 2008 - 06:35 PM |
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| Never been one for the random street-corner walk up so to speak. Plus usually in a rush but ur point is taken. |
I never was either but it does work. Stay out of the bars, you won't find what you are looking for there unless you are only interested in a good time and are prepared to pay for it.
I met my current GF online and we met for the first time at a coffee house. Actually having a nice cup of tea or coffee outside the Starbucks or Coffee Bean at XinTianDi is not a bad way to meet women. Book stores are another place that I see lots of attractive, and generally smarter, women.
There are a lot of nice women in Shanghai, not just hot but nice to be with. You will have to get over your being in a rush and any hang ups you have with smiling at a pretty girl and saying hello. Doesn't always work but not trying never does. |
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lilypink
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June 30, 2008 - 07:20 PM |
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SHexpat is not a platform for exchanging hooking skills...... |
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lilypink
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June 30, 2008 - 07:27 PM |
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u guys should find out ur own phantasies, remember: no innovation no progress. A chinese young guy was selling mosquito bodies online recently...... |
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HDXLCR
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June 30, 2008 - 08:04 PM |
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| SHexpat is not a platform for exchanging hooking skills...... |
First of all, hooking is what your gender does, worried of a little competition?
Second of all, since when does someone asking how to meet a nice girl to date become synonymous with prostitution.
Get a life. |
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GoingMad
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June 30, 2008 - 09:35 PM |
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hot chicks in shanghai rulesss!!!
@ angelus512
u must look weird. |
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lilypink
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June 30, 2008 - 10:34 PM |
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| SHexpat is not a platform for exchanging hooking skills...... |
First of all, hooking is what your gender does, worried of a little competition?
Second of all, since when does someone asking how to meet a nice girl to date become synonymous with prostitution.
Get a life. |
na, this world is never in lack of men with 2 legs, but toads with 3 legs.
Well, in china there are 20 Million more males.... |
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HDXLCR
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June 30, 2008 - 10:39 PM |
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na, this world is never in lack of men with 2 legs, but toads with 3 legs.
Well, in china there are 20 Million more males.... |
OK, I am going to guess from your postings that you are related to Nathalie? |
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p1atl10
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June 30, 2008 - 10:45 PM |
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SHexpat is not a platform for exchanging hooking skills......
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Lilypink...I am starting to understand underwaters joy in flaming you.
The OP asked a reasonable question for this thread and specifically stated he is not looking for "commercial women".
Please give him a break and wander back to your flame wars with under.
xie xie |
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angelus512
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July 01, 2008 - 09:23 AM |
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Cheers for all the helpful little tips. I must set aside some time in the coming weeks clearly. |
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chamaflauge
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July 01, 2008 - 02:24 PM |
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To meet those smoking hot gals requires a bit of luck. When you are not looking they always pop up. You wont find them in the bar for real. Online Asian girls are only looking for white meat and tend to be recycled and always are looking for the next big thing, just look at enjoy and asiaexpat.
If you use it you will get the same group of women desperatetly hunting for perfect mr. white. The problem is perfect mr white only wants to bang and those girls are back in queue again 1 year 2 years later. It's crazy. The first questions are what color are you? what do you do for work? How tall are you?
Even if you are white stay away from these girls at all cost. Why would you want a girl who the first thing she is looking for is color. To me thats just suspect. So whenever I see that while online I just run for the hills.
I usually meet my girls while out. There was a girl about a month ago that I met at Malones she was a waitress there. We met we banged and we keep in regular contact. She's hot, but not smoking hot.
Smoking hot ones you need to be Chinese or you need to have money. Smoking hot ones don't care about how big your d#%k is because they have already fullfilled that fantasy a long time ago and know what their worth is. They want to be spoiled. And who not to spoil them but a rich ass Shanghainese guy?
They want a car and not a d%$k, or a car and a d#$k. The parents train them well before their 21rst birthday.
You want to meet a super hot girl pick up David d'angelo's videos and audios on how to pick up hot women. It works if you apply yourself.
he will tell you that being busy is probaly the best thing you have going for you. |
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Nathalie25
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July 01, 2008 - 04:07 PM |
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Smoking hot ones you need to be Chinese or you need to have money. Smoking hot ones don't care about how big your d#%k is because they have already fullfilled that fantasy a long time ago and know what their worth is. They want to be spoiled. And who not to spoil them but a rich ass Shanghainese guy?
They want a car and not a d%$k, or a car and a d#$k. The parents train them well before their 21rst birthday.
You want to meet a super hot girl pick up David d'angelo's videos and audios on how to pick up hot women. It works if you apply yourself.
he will tell you that being busy is probaly the best thing you have going for you. |
I want a real man, not a sissy man ~~~~~~~ |
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chamaflauge
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July 01, 2008 - 06:15 PM |
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Natalie the problem iIS that nobody wants YOU. |
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Nathalie25
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July 02, 2008 - 08:05 AM |
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| Natalie the problem iIS that nobody wants YOU. |
Cool,I can do whatever in life then~~~~~~~
but hey, you once chat with me and invited me to date with you in Zapatas,right?> |
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BONNIE
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July 02, 2008 - 08:12 AM |
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Why don't you go out with nice Chinese boys Nat ? |
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Nathalie25
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July 02, 2008 - 08:25 AM |
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| Why don't you go out with nice Chinese boys Nat |
This question just like why cannot speak Chinese instead of English?But the poblem ishere no one I can speak chinese with in SHanghaiexpat~~~ |
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