Forum FAQ

Preferences

Watched Topics

Watched Forums

Marriage vs Rosy Vow

Tags : property, business, travel, technology, nightlife, events, food, food

Shanghai Expat Forum Index » Hot Topics Forums » Dating Singles, and Relationships

Author

Message

sunnylin
Lurker
Lurker

Joined: June 06, 2008
Posts: 30

Posted: July 31, 2008 - 05:30 PM
Post subject: Marriage vs Rosy Vow

Hi, guys, I've overheard sth. like this, only 2 or 3 out of one thousand couples are TRUELY happy with each other. Most people had to stay in marriage because of their self-interest----lots to do with money, inheritance, etc, etc, etc. So it is not quite as rosy as before that BIG vow. Hope this is not true.....

Nathalie25
Board Legend

Joined: Aug 24, 2004
Posts: 10387
Location: Shanghai

Posted: July 31, 2008 - 05:41 PM

I never experience the marriage in my life, I also have refused some kraut his engagement after I found some kraut just wanna use me to wipe his ass for fool in that moment, I always try to forget all the terrible treatment that I used to suffer it from that kraut, but people always mention it and repeat it and discuss it for their idiot revenge and whatever they think it can please them for illiteration in here, so I totally cannot help myself to make here someone happy when I am unhappy about someone his immature behaviors he tries to hurt me in those insane days~~~~~~

_________________
功高盖主，必有祸出。人生是人类生命中内心和万般经历的真实写照。 http:/

Bohica

Reacher

Joined: July 25, 2008
Posts: 292

Status: Offline

Posted: July 31, 2008 - 06:17 PM

All my married friends wish they were single - All my single friends wish they were married.

I think happiness is a collection of happy moments - more good days than bad. If you focus on the positive aspects of a relationship and don't dwell on the negative you might find you are happier than you thought.

But I believe it's human nature to think "Is this all there is?" Some answer yes and live with it and others say "Hell no and move on "

Maybe we all just set our expectations of the other half way too high

lilypink

Reacher

Joined: June 10, 2007
Posts: 280

Status: Offline

Posted: July 31, 2008 - 07:19 PM

Fortress Besieged
Le marriage est comme une forteresse assiegee;
ceux qui sont dehors veulent y entrer, et
ceux qui sont dedans veulent en sortir.

Nathalie25
Board Legend

Joined: Aug 24, 2004
Posts: 10387
Location: Shanghai

Posted: Aug 01, 2008 - 09:08 AM

Bohica wrote:

when I know someone cannot be stably to deal with all his privacy personally in here, then I just quit to expect any positive wishes for that in my every single day, when someone cannot get what he really want, then someone just command all his friends to blame and disgrace me about the nonsense of all those french or germans or whatever it can drives someone himself crazy in this website from days to nights to be fooled so, so someone always makes himself and me our feelings up and down or down and up all day long, I totally dislike it, I totally don't like people to push me or to squeeze himself for getting the pains or to dig the holes for creeping in life, if someone he really loves some woman, then just do it stably and confidently in life, if you always wanna praise someone and abuse someone at same time, then nothing can be changed( no matter the situation or the movement), I have to say~~

_________________
功高盖主，必有祸出。人生是人类生命中内心和万般经历的真实写照。 http:/