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Post subject: What do gay people in Shanghai do?!

After being here in Shanghai for a while, I must confess the gay scene here is pathetic to the utmost.

What do gay people in Shanghai do?!

Anybody here up for dinners, coffees and home parties?

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After being here in Shanghai for a while, I must confess the gay scene here is pathetic to the utmost.


Yes, because \"look back upon Chinese whole history, china has never been a country of individualism as in the western world. Chinese believe in \"social balance and harmony\" all the time ever since Confucious, which means everyone should just function well in the whole system thus, what they value most is, if you are accepted by the majority of the society and follow the mainstream of the society. \" Obviously, gay is something ways too far from it. they are unaccepted and discreminated and treated unfairly...sad but true...

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They do what human beings would do wherever they are...they eat, they sleep, they work, they live, they love and they hate except that they cant have kids...guess they have to invest much more in love than straights do and fight really hard to protect themselves and of course their rare love...but who don\'t!?! IMO, it is just a personal choice if anything wrong well they shouldn\'t have been born here in China...Have read a book about gay...very touching and heartbreaking...the book\'s name: Beijing Gushi. A Chinese book. \"Gushi\" means story. just in case.

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Parker, yu888, lucky, shang, peter, mark...not sure if they are gay though... Sad

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No, we\'re not gay, though I don\'t think we\'d mind a gay person hanging around with us. Feel free to attack that statement if it doesn\'t match your version of the truth, guys, but that\'s how I see it.

Just come to the coffee meeting, naughtboy. Saturdays at the Starbucks on Shanxi Nan Lu. Share your predicament and have an interesting day with some straight people. We don\'t bite or anything. - Ha Ha-

Rufus (a.k.a Peter)
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and if you dont mind a few girls...

Razz Razz Razz

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P.S.: Peter sometimes does BITE...like someone called Banana or Duck... Very Happy

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Thanks Cool

Will be there one of these days!

Did you guys meet up last Sat?

How many people are there on a usual Sat?

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Yes we did...like every Sat.

Usually we have 4 or 5 *$ tables and borrow the chairs from the rest.

Last Friday\'s babyshower party, we had a living-room of people and borrowed some m2 from kitchen.

Got it?!?

Cool Cool Cool

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naughtygayboy wrote:
What do gay people in Shanghai do?!



EACH OTHER Laughing Laughing Laughing

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I thought there was a whole list up somewhere of clubs and such in Shanghai devoted to gays. (and some for lesbians)
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naughtygayboy wrote:
What do gay people in Shanghai do?!



EACH OTHER Laughing Laughing Laughing


classic response...but...

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classic response...but...


No progressively increasing words.

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they take it up the arse and enjoy it dont they?
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From recent posts, joining a local gym would seem to be a good starting point............

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and also a good finishing point....


BTW i have never been with a RedHead...just thought I would mention that...

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red heads are fiery, are you?
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Post  Posted: Aug 22, 2008 - 12:43 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

There was a foam party I was invited to by a bunch of girls a few years back and it turns out it was full of gays. So if a girl friend asks you to go to a foam party, go.
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Post  Posted: Aug 22, 2008 - 01:29 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

SnappySammy wrote:
and also a good finishing point....


BTW i have never been with a RedHead...just thought I would mention that...


Love this response Sammy you are a quick wittied bugger arent you.

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Er to the OP i mean "Bugger" in a cheeky chappy sort of way and not the Malaysian Politician sort of way so please dont PM sammy. wink2

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