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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 01:34 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: looking for foreign woman

hi, my name is mike, a chinese man, 34, i am here to find a forgein woman who likes to hang out with me, or have a sex if it's alright for her.

to be perfectly honest i am married, my wife is studying abroad...

sex is not the only thing i can think of, in fact, i am really into american english, i would love to have female friends only for this purpose, and i could teach her chinese as a reward.

if you are interested, send a message to otl8888@gmail.com

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how much is your salary ?
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hi, though i don't think it's to do with my salary, 40 grand rmb a month
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no, i don't need a hooker, that's not what i want, not only sex
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 02:43 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Thinking it would be cool to have a foreign wife as a columbine?

Novelty would wear off quickly.
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 02:49 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

woaihuan wrote:
Thinking it would be cool to have a foreign wife as a columbine?



This thread is gold!

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I spelled that wrong, didn't I?

Google isn't helping me spell it right either.
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 02:54 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I think you were going for concubine.

Anyway, we'd both better clear off before the huge queue of women who like sleeping with married Chinese guys arrives.

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Yup, concubine.

Something makes me think that the aforementioned women won't be queuing up - they're already busy PMing him.

I really can't see the appeal, though. It can't be that hard to get a Chinese guy for a foreign girl, and he doesn't seem to be offering any compensation, financially or otherwise.
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 03:06 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

hey, don't be so mean, we are all human being and have same feelings, why'd you guys make such a boundary?
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You go for it Mike.

By the way, what happens when the wife comes back?

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Regardless, you're asking basically asking for someone to cheat with while your wife is abroad.

Does your wife know?
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 03:13 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

with the salary you're on, how about you go visit your wife...or would that make too much sense...rather than come look for some woman and cheat on your wife
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 03:20 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

woaihuan wrote:
Regardless, you're asking basically asking for someone to cheat with while your wife is abroad.

Does your wife know?


Well..maybe it figures sth...a sad story...and a revenge

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i like tluong96's point, yes, i have done this twice. your westerns seem like much opener? i guess i am damned wrong, cheating sucks, can we forget about the sex part?

but i am not a bad man, believe it or not, you wouldn't regret to meet me if you still wanted to, i mean, for language learning part
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 03:23 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Post a pic of yourself please.
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 03:32 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

40 grand a month...why not hire a foreigner secretary or pay for language 1to1 study...or u prefer ugly betty style

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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 03:39 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I wouldn't be against this if polygamy was legal, but unfortunately it isn't, so from what you've said, the foreign girl is kinda getting shafted - and not just literally.
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 04:21 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

come on woaihuan, you made your point clearly, i said forget-out-the-sex-part, i am not a bad guy again, ok? i'd rather do it myself than getting a girl, you don't get it, don't you? it's not only about the bio-needs. my wife's away for like 2 years, and all of my friends are busy working... it's not that easy but i deal with it right
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otl8888 wrote:
i said forget-out-the-sex-part.....


ummm... we call that trying to shut the barn door after the horse is out. I mean you did mention having sex right there in your first sentence. It was very blatent.

It would be kind of hard for a women to believe you 'just want to be friends' now.
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so let s say u finally find a western lady who wants to be with u for friends / sexual partner .. or ***** whatever thing...

then your wife comes back to you one day after **** years

then u realize that you start to like this western lady but not your wife .... or the western lady doesn't want let u go .... or your wife found out that...

how would you handle the complex in between? i m your are a 34 years old guy not 18 ... u should think that first before u do anything
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whatever it's called...you get what i meant...."ladylady"...you may know sometimes a crazy idea just jumps out...but the thing is to overcome that thought..whether to be a friend or not is up to that woman anyway...
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 05:11 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

is there an end? "flyingwings"..yes i am the one to blame...but i've stopped this freaking idea...

maybe it's completely wrong getting to know you westerners from your episodes, ladies here have already been planted the chinese mindset

age 34 also makes mistakes...except blaming or mocking...is there nothing else i can hear?..sometimes...we are all such idiots
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Post  Posted: Sep 26, 2008 - 05:19 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

well..no need to get mad...

it is a thread so everybody contributes here, i just saw it...and write something..

chill out dude..

u do whatever you want...
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