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Post 4Posted: July 27, 2004 - 10:27 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: Guys are sooo easy

Hearing soo many stories about Guys scoring and then they're bragging about it about how easy the ladies are.

BUT

Actually the guys are too easy. Right ladies, the only thing the lady has to do to seduce and have her joy fullfilled is:

- Dress sexy and showing some skin, especially by your front
- Go to a bar and look nasty around (defenately get attention)
- Allow the guy to buy you a drink, boost their ego Wink
- Listen to their boring pick-up lines and clishé words
- Just look in their eyes, pose your figure etc.
- Show your little shy

Defenately they want to take you home, Mr. Green


SO WHO'S EASY THEN????


So some members of this board are just a bunch of male HO, and really congratulate them on being the most easy target. Like the bycycle everybody rides on good for once, but pathetic for long run.





BTW: Hope this doesn't wind up in the PITT because it's just another way of looking at it. This is just directed to a small group of man, I don't generilse and just want to hand out a blow towards the few bragging persons. I do expect some bashing for this post towards me, but I wanted to redirect some vision because the coin has two sides.

Don't worry this will be one of the very very few "bashing" post from me

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Post  Posted: July 27, 2004 - 11:46 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I will agree with you to some extent Ivo. There are many "easy men" out there. Society as a whole seems to only have problems with easy women. It has been socially and morally acceptable to men to "sow their oats" for generations. Anthropologists, sociologists and other disciplines all support this view.

Just like all women aren't easy, there are also some men around out there who are not easy either. Of course, I don't know if many of those men are in Shanghai! Laughing

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Like I said I'm not painting everyone with one brush. I'm just want to show those few "so-called" wonderful men, that their behavior isn't how it should be.

Most of the men AND ladies are good, but the minority spoils it for all.
And this should be turned, I find it ridiculous to judge lady by her actions, but as guy can do. Sheer discrimination and illogical too.

But just my view

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Post subject: Re: Guys are sooo easy

itv1980 wrote:

Actually the guys are too easy. I don't generilse and just want to hand out a blow


Where do I sign up?
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Well, I have to agree with all of you. Guys are easy and I don't think that you will find many guys denying that. But for one thing guys reputation does not get tarnish for being easy. In fact they get a reputation of being a ladies man. I'm sorry but it is true. It would be nice to have more women think that sex is sex and nothing more or less. This will make more guys out there happy.
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That's the whole. Like I said in the other post, that there is nothing wrong with one-night stands, but if I would say that out-loud everybody declares me crazy. It still does not mean that I sleep with the first guy that crosses my path.

But guys do not seem to mind and generally do not seem to care who they sleep with. I once was talking to a guy from England who said he wanted to sleep with 37 women before he was 37, he was no on 30 and still had 6 months to go.
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Guys easy for the girls? I want to sign up. Buy me and take me home baby
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Post  Posted: July 28, 2004 - 03:09 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

is there anything wrong with being easy? both for guys and girls?
i thought we're all just trying to get some pleasures?
in most of discussions, i kinda feel that people (usually the girls) were confused between getting laid and having a relationship.
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No, there is nothing wrong with being easy.

I just irritated by people bragging: "How many ladies they have had and slander those ladies completely" but they did sleep with them.

Like they want easy ladies and afterwards tell all how "sl*ts" they are. This behavior I really dislike.

How you like to live your life is up to you, but please don't judge others how think different and please don't brag. I don't think your a repectable person if you have had 20 ladies in a weekend.

I rather walk away, because either it's not true or you're just a male ho

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Post  Posted: July 29, 2004 - 01:20 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

itv1980, I agree but I don't think that you have to worry about the guy that you sleep with about bragging. I think that it is the society as a whole who label the female that sleep aroud as "sl*t". Most guys does'nt like to brag or talk about the ladies they sleep with. At least I and all my friends don't. I think if someone label me as a "male ho", I would be very happy.

I think it would be great for women to feel that they can have no string attach type of sex.
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Post  Posted: July 29, 2004 - 03:35 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

What did the farmer say to his hoe?

hoe down
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What did the farmer say to his hoe?

hoe up
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Post subject: Re: Guys are sooo easy

So What easy or not easy. People can enjoy them life that doesn't mean they easy.
[quote="itv1980"]Hearing soo many stories about Guys scoring and then they're bragging about it about how easy the ladies are.

[b]BUT[/b]

Actually the guys are too easy. Right ladies, the only thing the lady has to do to seduce and have her joy fullfilled is:

- Dress sexy and showing some skin, especially by your front
- Go to a bar and look nasty around (defenately get attention)
- Allow the guy to buy you a drink, boost their ego :wink:
- Listen to their boring pick-up lines and clishé words
- Just look in their eyes, pose your figure etc.
- Show your little shy

Defenately they want to take you home, :mrgreen:


SO WHO'S EASY THEN????


So some members of this board are just a bunch of male HO, and really congratulate them on being the most easy target. Like the bycycle everybody rides on good for once, but pathetic for long run.





BTW: Hope this doesn't wind up in the PITT because it's just another way of looking at it. This is just directed to a small group of man, I don't generilse and just want to hand out a blow towards the few bragging persons. I do expect some bashing for this post towards me, but I wanted to redirect some vision because the coin has two sides.

Don't worry this will be one of the very very few "bashing" post from me[/quote]
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Post  Posted: Aug 02, 2004 - 01:38 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I think the real question being asked here is quality versus quantity, champagne. If a man is out (or in) with a different woman every day of the week, then we can usually think he is having a good time and enjoying life. The same man can also be enjoying life and having a good time with one woman (well, some men can do that Very Happy ).

Women are often subjected to harsh treatment from society if they follow the style of the man who has a different woman everyday and men are encourged in the wink-wink-nudge-nudge manner. If a woman is loyal to one man, she is praised. If a man is loyal to one woman then he is praised, although many of his friends will often joke with him about being bored. Ok . . . women make those jokes too. Either way, both women and men can enjoy life and have a good time but it is typically only the woman who is chastized for such behaivor.

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Quote: but it is typically only the woman who is chastized for such behaivor.

Exactly why I posted this. I'm not saying people shouldn't have fun. Like if both parties agrees then why not. Also the matter of cheating your gf/fiancee/wife I'm against it. If you said yes to a relationship you should take the responsibility and not cheat.

But for singles if they want to chase skirt only, fine that's their lifestyle. It's just not mine, so I particaluary getting bored with post saying how easy it is to get women and BRAG about it.

The bragging and showing disrespect to the ladies is what I didn't like. While they are saying what sl*t those ladies were but they did use them for that purpose. So then who'se actually the sl*t then? Most cases the lady is titled in that way, while the player (boy) gets all the praise. For what like being such a ho.

I'm fine when both parties agrees to one night stand, wants only on thing and no responsibility but just stop bragging about it. That's so boring and gets on my nerves.

Enjoy life and being easy wasn't the statement from my post. Just wanted to get like the stupid ideal out of the mind that when ladies date another guy everyday its a bad person, but if the men dates a lady everyday he's a hero. Then he finds lot of comfort in bragging about it and on how goooooood he is.

That's what I dislike, the bragging and that's my post intention

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