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ElephantMan
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Nov 10, 2004 - 10:24 PM |
 
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Just curious about the factors behind your best sexual experience. Was it because -
(a) your partner was so physically attractive?
(b) his or her superb lovemaking skills?
(c) the strong emotional bond between you?
(d) the time and or place?
or any other factors.
What's the balance in your case? Mine is clear (I can allocate percentages to (a) to (d) above) but am just curious about your experience before I reveal mine. The benefit of introducing a new topic! |
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Benoist_Shanghai
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C.
Rest is ersatz or bonus.
b. |
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frenchlover1999
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B. Rest is bonus, as far as "best sexual experience" is concerned. And not just to contradict the superstar above  |
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JeffG
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Nov 11, 2004 - 12:35 PM |
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The best sex is always when you have to kidnap the bitch, tie here up and abuse here... **** I should stop typing what I think ... I was meant to say A and C |
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Magnolia
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Nov 11, 2004 - 12:56 PM |
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And you say I'm the scary one, JeffG!!!
C. Definately C. |
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Villon
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Nov 11, 2004 - 01:17 PM |
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i can?t remember, its toooooooooooooo long ago  |
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PureXTC88
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Nov 11, 2004 - 01:18 PM |
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A and B, boy she knew how to work it and she was SOOO HOT! |
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ocryan
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Nov 11, 2004 - 01:38 PM |
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i mean, id like to say it was because of a strong emotional bond... but i dont think sex and love align as perfectly as people hope it to. maybe its different for men, but i think its biologically ingrained in our dna to have different people throughout our lives. while mairrage is convenient for society, i dont think its natural. but thats almost off topic.
my best sex was definatly with someone who was very skilled (B) but i think that her appearance (A) was definatly wrapped up into it. she just knew how to be a sexy little thing.
when it comes down to it, your emotional bond isnt going to mean jack if your man doesnt last, or if your woman is a cold fish in bed. what are these skills in particular that will make it the best sex of your life? im glad you asked:
the o dog guide to dirty groovin...
1. know what you gotta work out in the gym. aside from not being a fatty (and not being a skinny ass stick.. im looking at you chinese girls...) you have to know what tools youre going to need in bed besides the obvious.
for men, your chest and shoulders are going to be what makes you a man. theyre what she grabs onto and admires... abs are important for the groovin motion, but a six pack is a little more than most of us can hope for. just keep it proportional.
for women, and i cant stress this enough, work on those thigh muscles. if you have strong upper leg muscles, you can be on top. until then keep doing those lunges. also, do whatever it takes to get yourself a nice round ass. every man is different in his preferences. but just get yourself a badunkadunk for me, alright?
2. an awkward move can be a total mood killer. so get primal. let your animal self take over. you cant all be sexual dynamos like me, so just let the most primitive of urges be your guide. you really have to develop a feel for it. sometimes the feel of your hot breathing will be more than enough to turn the nipple into an orgiastic pleasure center, but sometimes you gotta bite.
3. men need visual stimulation. so make a show of it girls. be a bad girl. look back over your shoulder and talk dirty. for girls, the sense of smell is much more important, but cologne is not always the best response.
there are more very, very important things, but from girls i have loved who did not follow these three rules, the sex just didnt measure up to the girls who did. |
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Nov 11, 2004 - 01:53 PM |
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B BBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB
everything else is but the politically correct response. some of the best was with real dogs. long as the lights are off and i don't have my glasses on, you can put the face of whoever you think is hot.
so there! |
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frenchlover1999
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Nov 11, 2004 - 02:34 PM |
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Here is a reasonable man, thank you. |
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bellabella
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Nov 11, 2004 - 03:02 PM |
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C definitely C, if you're comfortable with yourself and with the other person and you can communicate properly with each other then the sex can be amazing. but that's just the female perspective. |
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frenchlover1999
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Nov 11, 2004 - 03:11 PM |
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Barbarella, you are partly right and it is also partly true from a male perspective, but you should also try B. |
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wcarsten
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Nov 11, 2004 - 03:28 PM |
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totally high with a stranger in the back of a van at the love parade  |
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SwedishChef
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ocryan
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Nov 11, 2004 - 03:36 PM |
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| bellabella wrote: |
| C definitely C, if you're comfortable with yourself and with the other person and you can communicate properly with each other then the sex can be amazing. but that's just the female perspective. |
being comfortable and communicating are indeed important, but is a strong emotional bond completely necessary for that? i mean, maybe youre really shy or chubby or something.... but people can be comfortable with each other pretty quick. and as for communication.. let my hands do the talkin baby. |
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Kiwi
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Nov 11, 2004 - 03:42 PM |
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Mix of B and C. . .
If the skills are noticably absent I always find myself wondering about the emotional bond ("If she really wants to be doing this then how come she is making such a half-arsed effort?"). On the other hand amazing skills can make you imagine an emotional bond that isn't really there. . .
But at the end of the day I figure it's more C than B.
The time before and after the actual activity surely counts as part of the whole experience (well, unless you are dealing with a professional), and B isn't so important from that angle. |
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Caesara
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Nov 11, 2004 - 03:42 PM |
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Physical attraction is important. But a strong mental connection can also cause you to find someone physically attractive even if you normally otherwise wouldn't.
If you're hopelessly lost in bed, then that's not a point in your favour. Though learning what your partner particularly likes is definitely a good thing.
Absolutely. This is the one that makes it matter. You can intuit what your lover wants and needs when you have this kind of bond, both in and out of bed.
Special-occasion lovemaking? Sure. Random no-occasion times are good too. Time and place have their roles to play.
Really, I think it's a combination, like ElephantMan said. You can't exclude any of these factors. |
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itv1980
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Nov 11, 2004 - 05:48 PM |
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For me C most important, B is related to that and the rest comes naturally |
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ElephantMan
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Nov 12, 2004 - 04:08 AM |
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Here's mine. About 40% for each of A and C, and about 10% for each of B and D. 
I discussed this with a group of both sexes. The girls tended to go strongly for B and C and the boys more for A. D didn't seem to matter too much to either. 
So boys, you'd better get watching some technique DVDs and put in more practice. And girls, just carry on looking so wonderful! |
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xay6pack
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Nov 12, 2004 - 09:17 AM |
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Time and Place.
I like it in public where you could get caught. Yall should try if you haven't. |
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IamME
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Nov 12, 2004 - 09:46 AM |
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All of the above plus some peyote and ...it was that time of the month. I know that's...but theliquids were just right. Not full steem with the peyote either, we were comming down. Anyway that was a long long time ago and I'm sure I'll have better sex in the future, or different anyway. over time my taste has totally changed and i really wouldn't have such good sex with that girl again I think. Now I need something.someone different (clearly, that was like high school first type stuff. anyway all of the above were essential at that time. If only i wasn't so picky about dating girls, don't like anyone enough to have it that great these days. |
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endalia
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Nov 12, 2004 - 03:14 PM |
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A combination of all of them is best, but there is something to be said for jsut happens and all night long as well. You know when you see a person and you just know but there are no words that need to be said! |
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JeffG
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Nov 12, 2004 - 04:53 PM |
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"Can I get you another drink ..." I find needs to be said Endalia |
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endalia
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Nov 12, 2004 - 06:44 PM |
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No drinks needed, just the connection! |
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lucar
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Nov 14, 2004 - 01:08 PM |
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For the best sex of my life, D is the most important factor for "Place". Passed-out asleep in my bed. Wake me up when yur done! |
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