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olesechka

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Posted: May 17, 2005 - 04:53 PM

I completely disagree with this theory. Yes, men look first at the face, figure of a girl then decide whether to continue the relationship or not. Girls first look but then listen and talk and understand and feel and then decide whether to continue or not. We are just different. That means why beautiful women stay with ugly (to men's point of view) men will never be understood to ful extend by men.

The reality is that whether beautiful or not women require passion and understanding and care and being taken care (not that men do not require but it seems that women are more often, they are more often more sensitive and thus can be easily hurt). When saying , that "he will never leave me" women can mean that "I am confident in him that he will not hurt me" not that just he has no choice among women.

Well, some may disagree with me.

DeeLphiC

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Posted: May 17, 2005 - 05:47 PM

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However, his wife - a prime piece of Taiwan totty

you think?!

IMHO based on personal experience, French guys share the most similar sense of aesthetics with Chinese ... NOT brit tho ... better check with some Taiwanese guys to see what they d say about her

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DeeLphiC

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Posted: May 17, 2005 - 05:52 PM

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he looks like a Picasso. All pointy with weird eyes and sort of blueish colour

that's what YOU say ... you are not Chinese/Taiwanese chick are you?!?!

To some chinese birds, the weirder the eyes look, the more exotic they are ... and blueish (!!) tht is just right about most Chinese girls' tastes!!!

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*CheerLeader*Mao
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Posted: May 17, 2005 - 06:01 PM

chinEse girks likie moneY
thaT is IT
that is all u nEEd to knoW
ever SEE a hoT chinESe giRL with a pooR guy
me neithER

DeeLphiC

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Posted: May 17, 2005 - 06:15 PM

yeah I saw once a chinese hottie came out of Portman with a rich monkey

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lostmonk
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Posted: May 19, 2005 - 05:29 PM

My son Fidel,

Don't you know that there is an expiry date to the attractiveness of women?

Just like milk, the older they get, the more revulsive they become.

Thus in order to protect their oh-so-fragile self-esteem, women in general want to marry men who don't attract as many bees as Brad Pitt does. There lies the explaination for ugly men being able to "offer women a sense of security".

Which probably explains why the good-looking men in this world have a tendency to hook up babes worse off looking than them. Tough luck, my son, for being well-endowed with good looks.

Bless you.

vegienerdy

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Posted: May 19, 2005 - 05:44 PM

hahahahaha.... i think the opposite holds true for me. i think my guy attracts more bees than me... well, maybe he feels more secured that i will 'NEVER LEAVE HIM'.

i kinda agree with cheerleader mao esp in a country like china. no offence but seems to be a reality here... well, sometimes the truth hurts... oops! Wink

lostmonk
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Posted: May 19, 2005 - 05:54 PM

Aye, it is true that Chinese[] chicks do go for men with more money.

In the west however, a mixture exists. Some go for bigger dicks while the rest .. still go for men with more money.

The truth does indeed hurts! Wink

lucar

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Posted: May 20, 2005 - 06:32 AM

Everybody's got somethin' to trade.

Nadgee

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Posted: May 20, 2005 - 09:54 PM

this is a very common perception. but it seems that western man likes eastern women with TYPICAL eastern features-which are not beautiful to chinese men. like 'chinese' eyes.........

so maybe. they are really dating women that cant get a chinese boyfriend?? Very Happy

olesechka

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Posted: May 21, 2005 - 12:14 AM

or maybe (apart of what I said above) those Chinese girls do not consider those guys UGLY.

Nadgeee

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Posted: May 21, 2005 - 04:04 PM

true. given the local competition.........ahem

I dunno if anyone else has noticed it. but the general feeling in this country is that chiense girls(who just came from asia) are alittle bit SLOW. not in the sense their academic results are not good(they are awsome at commerce and ****), but they have trouble thinking outside of academia, and not all that well informed about issues out of asia. maybe it s the result of growing up in a homogenous hole like china? anyone else find this to be true?

adrenochrome

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Posted: May 21, 2005 - 05:39 PM

@Nadgee

I second that 100%, but as you said not surprising at all. Some do not even know wthat is happening inside their own country. Different life focus. Rolling Eyes

Cheers,

Adreno

lucar

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Posted: May 21, 2005 - 07:31 PM

Ugly guys date beautiful women everywhere. Not just in China. Look at all of your ugly rock stars for example. Do you think it is an accident that they somehow wind up with female models?

Less common is ugly women dating beautiful men.

Nadgeee

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Posted: May 21, 2005 - 08:56 PM

lucar wrote:

i dont think anyone has said this is a chinese phenomenon....

i would say that it is not uncommon for ugly asian girls to be dating goodlooking westerners. But overall, men are less concerned with material wealth and more preoccupied with finding the best looking girl they can possibly get.

gman

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Posted: May 25, 2005 - 07:25 PM

Brad Pitt????so all women like guys that have B.O.??? and dont bathe an a regular basis?? it is reported that he just isnt too fond of the shower and soap and stuff like that.....