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DragonAss
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Oct 11, 2005 - 02:38 AM |
 
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Okay... so this must be an old issue... but I am curious to dig your comments once again.
I heard how my friends told stories about gals they met, brought home, slept with them, at the end of the day, biz' done, thank you very much every attendant and that's about it til they met again or never ever again.
These Chinese gals who go for this one nite stand are they prostitutes under cover?? If not, what're they looking for really?? purely sex need???the money for one nite stand service??? or a glimpse of chance for further relationship??? what's there actually?? 'coz these guys I know unfortunately are more into their physical needs than anything else.. let alone any attachment to come along with the sleeping over events.
Just 2 nites ago, I stayed at a friend's to experience the whole scenario in live. I think it was rather heartless to send the gal away early in the morning, long enough before the aiyi arrived. This was something my other friends also did... so really left me wondering... this gal I met that nite was quite elegant, yet she lowered herself in such a way.
Suddenly I feel like a nun to think like this. |
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thecrucialconspiracy
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Oct 11, 2005 - 03:43 AM |
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I am not really sure but I used to think when people give up on love or lose faith in love, they jsut let the physical thing lead the way - we all know the bond in love aka trust and faith takes time to form into, while sp or any pure physical connection takes the least and last the shortest. If one keeps getting betrayed or cheated on in relationships that they have been trying hard to build up trust and faith in the other hence expect more from the relationship than just physical statisfaction, eventually they give up as there really isn't any point to working on something that never rewards? life goes on. there are still other needs get to be taken care of. we still get to love ourselves, guess that partly, if not wholly, explains the scenario? |
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MissIndependent
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Oct 11, 2005 - 04:05 AM |
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been there done that. found it easier when your heart feels nothing so your mind just follows and speaks for your body.
there has been pleasure, pure physically. but it made your heart one that 's of even more numbness. the more numbness your heart got, the more pain it feels when getting stabbed on and waken up, and it takes more to feel love again - all spoken out of my true bloody experience.
got a handful of troubles too, emotionally and physically.
dont think the pleasure worth the risk. wont bother anymore. |
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Magnolia
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Oct 11, 2005 - 10:02 AM |
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| thecrucialconspiracy wrote: |
| I am not really sure but I used to think when people give up on love or lose faith in love, they jsut let the physical thing lead the way - we all know the bond in love aka trust and faith takes time to form into, while sp or any pure physical connection takes the least and last the shortest. If one keeps getting betrayed or cheated on in relationships that they have been trying hard to build up trust and faith in the other hence expect more from the relationship than just physical statisfaction, eventually they give up as there really isn't any point to working on something that never rewards? life goes on. there are still other needs get to be taken care of. we still get to love ourselves, guess that partly, if not wholly, explains the scenario? |
Possibly explanation.
However I tend to think that it is more primal than that. They simply want to get laid. |
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Clark_Kent
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Oct 11, 2005 - 02:00 PM |
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| MissIndependent wrote: |
been there done that. found it easier when your heart feels nothing so your mind just follows and speaks for your body.
there has been pleasure, pure physically. but it made your heart one that 's of even more numbness. the more numbness your heart got, the more pain it feels when getting stabbed on and waken up, and it takes more to feel love again - all spoken out of my true bloody experience.
got a handful of troubles too, emotionally and physically.
dont think the pleasure worth the risk. wont bother anymore. |
Oh, you sound so hurt, torn, and weighted down with emotional garbage, I mean baggage. Would your inner child like a hug? What happened to girl power? When I saw your handle, I thought you understood the lyrics from the song "Miss Independent" by Kelly Clarkson. Looks like you need to listen to it gain. Lazuraus, come and RISE out of your tomb! |
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Fathai
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Oct 11, 2005 - 03:34 PM |
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Dont forget that Miss Independant has a heart too like noonelse!
Do you have one or are you heartless? |
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Clark_Kent
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Oct 11, 2005 - 04:55 PM |
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Cold Blood Warm Heart.
Read my Post again. It's called Tough Love.
We all like to wallow in our own misery, but staying too long in it can be detrimental to your emotional health. That's why when people die, most western cultures have a period of mourning of 3 days. In China, it's seven days. After the mourning period is over, people should pick up themselves and move on. Only the ones who does not want to get well are determined to wallow in their self pitty. I'm just trying to help Miss Independent live up to her Handle name.
Sorry if I steped on your toes. Now how about a makeup kiss?  |
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amykai
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Oct 11, 2005 - 10:03 PM |
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I'd ask him to come over my place when there is a big storm, then kick him out in the early morning... |
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Clark_Kent
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Oct 11, 2005 - 10:13 PM |
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While playing the song "The Thunder Rolls" by Garth Brooks at the same time |
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amykai
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Oct 12, 2005 - 07:16 AM |
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great idea! |
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Fathai
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Oct 12, 2005 - 09:45 AM |
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You are a great guy Clark, I like your optimism.
For the kiss??? I am not that easy and you dont like hermaphrodite!
Can you fall in love with an hermaphrodite? |
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Clark_Kent
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Oct 12, 2005 - 04:06 PM |
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No, but the Invisible Man can. Nobody notices him so he's happy to get any attention. 
It's no big deal for a kiss. I've kissed Wonderwomen and Supergirl. They both got more balls then most man. |
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Magnolia
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Oct 12, 2005 - 04:20 PM |
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everytime i see this thread i think of the Fockers... |
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itv1980
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Oct 12, 2005 - 05:16 PM |
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Nice movie that one  Especially when the kid likes the maids .... |
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itv1980
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Oct 12, 2005 - 05:17 PM |
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sorry will continue downloading metallica .... zipp.... |
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DragonAss
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Oct 12, 2005 - 09:26 PM |
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| Magnolia wrote: |
| thecrucialconspiracy wrote: |
| I am not really sure but I used to think when people give up on love or lose faith in love, they jsut let the physical thing lead the way - we all know the bond in love aka trust and faith takes time to form into, while sp or any pure physical connection takes the least and last the shortest. If one keeps getting betrayed or cheated on in relationships that they have been trying hard to build up trust and faith in the other hence expect more from the relationship than just physical statisfaction, eventually they give up as there really isn't any point to working on something that never rewards? life goes on. there are still other needs get to be taken care of. we still get to love ourselves, guess that partly, if not wholly, explains the scenario? |
Possibly explanation.
However I tend to think that it is more primal than that. They simply want to get laid. |
Just wanna get laid, hm??? Are these Chinese gals trying to live with Westerners' idea of "one night stand"??
I know some of the gals my friend brought home would think he was good looking enough, therefore s3x was free... thou not rare, some of them would demand 200 kuai for taxi....  |
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DragonAss
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Oct 12, 2005 - 09:29 PM |
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| amykai wrote: |
| I'd ask him to come over my place when there is a big storm, then kick him out in the early morning... |
Hey Amy... I was expecting some quality comments from you since you seem to be the goodies in our Shanghai's expat community... |
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amykai
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Oct 12, 2005 - 10:49 PM |
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Am I a goodie? You are wrong. I am just a chinese bithe full of craps.  |
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cashew
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Oct 13, 2005 - 06:40 PM |
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maybe it's a form of cardio training- i won't judge
everyso often a good shag with no commitment makes me feel a whole lot better
but i like to be in my place and i usually make them coffee when it comes time to shoooo them away
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DragonAss
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Oct 14, 2005 - 10:51 PM |
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well, all I realised Shanghai's such a small place that we got all the chance to come across the same person again en again, ess if we often hang out in the same places. Wouldnt those gals be clinging on you, guys?? or could they actually pretend that nothing happened between you two after the nite over?? |
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Cybornut
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Oct 20, 2005 - 03:31 PM |
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Hang out at DKD or Babyface enough... you'll be able to pick out who's on the hunt.
Go to Senses if you want to find actual friendship... Mat! Free Advert Right HERE! I demand FREE DRINKS! |
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