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Post 22Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:12 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: Size

Whats the manner when dating with laowais?

I often get to be asked of my breast size, do I get to ask them back, such as their wallet size, d*ck size or brain size? So to make if fair???

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:19 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Do you have really big breasts or something?

To make this fair you can ask me the same question.

anywaaaaaays.....why does it bother you? Its also a very strange question to be asked when dating someone :S I dont think I've ever been asked such a question when dating a guy.

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Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:22 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Also I often get be answered that the reason they asked is out of curiosity, and I was told that it is common to talk about body size in western, with my conservative eastern background, its almost to be agreed that asking such question is forbidden.

However, I also received a lot of complaints of how direct Chinese talked, more often they'd like to ask how much a person make. So I was confused if this is a culture difference, if Chinese think that asking someone how much they made is normal, could be Westerner think that asking how big a woman's breast is normal, are these kind of question to be discussed openly on a dining table in western, if yes, would western man talked about their d*ck size openly as well?

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Post 10Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:25 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing
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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:26 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

ok on a proper date.... from experience iv never been asked my measurements no. Online i wouldnt be surprised.

In the west dating someone because they are good looking is more accepted then dating someone because they are rich. I dont know why.. it just is. I know i would never ask a guy how much money he makes... but i wouldnt ask a guy how big his penis was either.

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maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


i always thought i was quite an open minded person... but i just dont think this is right. A friend was at mine once and wanted to use the internet to chat to friends and i was like sure!!

I walked into the study and she camming with some guy and the guy was getting his penis out!!! i was utterly shocked !!! >_<

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littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing
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littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Funny how it is, but shouldn't be asking of a picture or cam in that internet case, better than asking direct of breast size.

But again, if these question is not to be asked in real life, why would it be natural to ask on internet?

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:38 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

beachgirl wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Funny how it is, but shouldn't be asking of a picture or cam in that internet case, better than asking direct of breast size.

But again, if these question is not to be asked in real life, why would it be natural to ask on internet?


Cos don't have eyes communications.....
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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:38 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

yes...sounds like a question that would be asked online.

I mean if the guy is there with you, what? is he fuccking retarded?
He can't just look at your chest and judge the size of your breastestesses'?

so, beachgirl, is this online dating you're talking about?
MSN attempted cyber sex or what?

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:42 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

yingying236 wrote:
Do you have really big breasts or something?

To make this fair you can ask me the same question.

anywaaaaaays.....why does it bother you? Its also a very strange question to be asked when dating someone :S I dont think I've ever been asked such a question when dating a guy.


But thats not the issue, I don't think size of the breast matters in such case, weather its big or small. Its not to agreed to become sexual when dating someone, that a woman has not agreed to undress privately, why would a woman feel comfortable to be undressed by someone's eyes publicly.

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:44 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!
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littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!


I know ..And
I know u know!


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maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!


I know u know!


I know u know I know!
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littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!


I know and ..
I know u know!


I know u know I know!


I know u know I know U know
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maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!


I know and ..
I know u know!


I know u know I know!


I know u know I know U know


I know u know I know u know I know! Laughing Laughing
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littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!


I know and ..
I know u know!


I know u know I know!


I know u know I know U know


I know u know I know u know I know! Laughing Laughing


I know u know I know u know I know u know Laughing Laughing Laughing
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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:52 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

LifeMage wrote:
yes...sounds like a question that would be asked online.

I mean if the guy is there with you, what? is he fuccking retarded?
He can't just look at your chest and judge the size of your breastestesses'?

so, beachgirl, is this online dating you're talking about?
MSN attempted cyber sex or what?


I think its fuccking retarded to ask in any cases, just for man's record............ and whoever need to asked that is a lamp

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:54 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!


I know and ..
I know u know!


I know u know I know!


I know u know I know U know


I know u know I know u know I know! Laughing Laughing


I know u know I know u know I know u know Laughing Laughing Laughing


I know u know I know u know I know u know I know u know I know u know I know -------- Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:55 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

yes ok agreed its a retarded. Only idiots ask this question so dont date them. lol

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 02:58 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
littlefox6_6 wrote:
maries wrote:
Baby!Just ask the guy to exchange the pic ...then both of u could find out! Laughing


Or maybe video cam online firstly! Can get 3 dimension view! Laughing


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ayaoooo!!!Baby!!!!
Do you think they have 3D softwares?
And not everybody could understand how to handle it !maybe xiao ni could do it!But little piiiiiiii won't ! Laughing Laughing


Baobei! you use the secret language here! Nobody will know it except me!


I know and ..
I know u know!


I know u know I know!


I know u know I know U know


I know u know I know u know I know! Laughing Laughing


I know u know I know u know I know u know Laughing Laughing Laughing


I know u know I know u know I know u know I know u know I know u know I know -------- Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


I start to like this post!!!!Honey!!!
It might be a challenge...hahahahaa!!!!!But the last one!

I know u know I know u know I know u know I know u know I know u know I know u know Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

Yu888....please forgive us..... Laughing Laughing Laughing
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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 03:02 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Of course there is no way to date further, while I feel offensive to be asked such questions.

But so far I've been asked all these weried question by laiwais:

How big is your breast?

How much you make? Whats your salary?

How much you pay for your rent?

How many boyfriend you have before? How many guys you had sex?

.............................

And these question is asked while just dating..........with or without me done anything to make a difference....................

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 03:04 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

beachgirl wrote:
I think its fuccking retarded to ask in any cases, just for man's record............ and whoever need to asked that is a lamp


Totally lamp! Very Happy

But guys tend to be pervs and lack the balls to admit it (in real life).
Online a person is pretty much anonymous, they can say whatever they want...without repercussion.
(ie. a kick in the nards (or) a slap in the face.)

Online I'd have no problem asking what colour panties yingying is wearing,
if littlefox spits or swallows, or if maries takes deliveries in the backdoor.

So, some guy you don't know..and never will, asks a lamp (lame) ass question.. what size are your tits?

Just tell him to F-off and get a life. He's a loser, and sorry but online,
it's not dating..it's just some guy trying to talk dirty to you.

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Post  Posted: Jan 18, 2007 - 03:06 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

If someone is asking the size of my breast I will delete him from my contact! Only retarded, stupid guys can ask those kind of questions...you know what the guy wants m pretty sure! Not your blue eyes!

Anyway, I happened to accept in my list a guy on Skype...he was from my city and thought we would have something in common but this stupid guy thought i wanted to get laid, asked my photo, my body features and if i had naked photos...I told him...what the hell!!!! he started saying he was a movie producer and he was going to buy a house in an island!
I looked at his contact list and saw he had like 580 contacts...frankly there are so many stupid guys and seems many chinese girls are falling for them!
I asked the guy to stop saying bullfeces, he replied he doesnt like arrogant western girls but prefer chinese girls!

If western guys are treating you like this its because you are encouraging them!
Stop being treated like a hole!!!
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