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mature_girlfriend
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Oct 06, 2007 - 03:38 PM |
 
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I got tired of looking for a girlfriend. I often find girls of my age or girls a bit older very boring. Every time I meet a woman who is interesting, funny and nice to talk to, it turns out she is around 40 years old and is not exactly looking for a boyfriend.
So now I really hope to find a single woman, preferably western, 35 years or older - but it seems like a really hard thing to do.
I am 25.
I would appreciate any great advices and insights on this topic. |
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MyNameIsPablo
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Oct 06, 2007 - 03:43 PM |
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Go to Gubei district. You'll find tons of Japanese and Korean older girls looking to get laid.
So I've heard. |
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MyNameIsPablo
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Oct 06, 2007 - 03:45 PM |
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| mature_girlfriend wrote: |
Every time I meet a woman who is interesting, funny and nice to talk to, it turns out she is around 40 years old and is not exactly looking for a boyfriend.
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Are you blind?
I ask because it's like WOW you just realised they're 40 after talking to them for a while.
Seriously, dude, go shopping for sushi in carrefour in Gubei.
You'll be up to your neck in mature sashimi-take-out before you can say **** Japan. |
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MyNameIsPablo
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Oct 06, 2007 - 03:46 PM |
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Or advertise.
Put an ad on ShEx like:
'Yo, wassup older gals. Young guy looking for action n shiit'. |
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MyNameIsPablo
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Hey look, just trying to help.. |
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mature_girlfriend
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Oct 06, 2007 - 04:09 PM |
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Well, you certainly put in effort.
It happens, some of the women look 25 and turn out to be 35, some look 35, but are 40 something. |
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TheMasterofDisaster
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Oct 06, 2007 - 04:33 PM |
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TRL hookers are no spring chickens. hope that helps |
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mature_girlfriend
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Oct 06, 2007 - 07:05 PM |
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So, any ideas besides prostitutes? I'm still hoping for a good advice. Thanks. |
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seph_07
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Oct 07, 2007 - 12:54 AM |
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| mature_girlfriend wrote: |
| So, any ideas besides prostitutes? I'm still hoping for a good advice. Thanks. |
try the "substitutes". they are the girls who act as a proxy when the prostitutes are on leave.
hey, also just trying to help... |
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findus
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Oct 07, 2007 - 07:05 AM |
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Agree with three of the other posters, hit Gubei for bored-up-to-their-armpits Korean/Japanese women who haven't had a good **** from their husband in 10 years. They are easy to spot, they are usually in Carrefor during the day dressed to the nines, watch closely and you'll see the come-on signs for white cock.
I'm not joking. |
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hello647
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Oct 07, 2007 - 08:48 AM |
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Well, I think mature_girlfriend can try out university teachers?? Go to traffic university in Xujiahui or others. You can pretend to be a foreign student, sit down there to observe the teacher if it happens to be a she. Good luck man! |
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DesertSpider
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Oct 07, 2007 - 10:04 AM |
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Maturity and Women here is an oxymoron... I've seen multiple girls in their late 30's and 40's plastered with Hello Kitty crap up one side and down the other.
Makes you think wtf do their parents do...
The mom wears Juicy or some other teeny-bopper crap. |
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p1atl10
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Oct 07, 2007 - 10:27 AM |
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Hey!!!
Leave my Mom ourt of this!!!! |
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DesertSpider
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Oct 07, 2007 - 11:28 AM |
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haha |
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| I'm looking good, got a luscious v of hair going through my chest pubes down to my ball fro. |
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yu888
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MyNameIsPablo
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Oct 07, 2007 - 11:31 AM |
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Gotta love those Juicy pants.
Well, on the right girl they're ok.
I'd be worried if I saw my ayi wearing some. |
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DesertSpider
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Oct 07, 2007 - 11:33 AM |
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i really don't think some people will get the american humor  |
If by American humor you mean laughing at ppl and not with them.... |
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| I'm looking good, got a luscious v of hair going through my chest pubes down to my ball fro. |
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TISM
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Oct 07, 2007 - 12:55 PM |
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get an ayi |
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MyNameIsPablo
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Oct 07, 2007 - 01:05 PM |
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^ hahahaha!! |
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elbow
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Oct 07, 2007 - 04:38 PM |
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seriously...
Get involved in expat community interest groups or go to events (not trashy parties). You'll find mature caucasian women who enjoy intelligent conversation and doing the same things you do. When you connect mentally and emotionally, the physical connection will come. |
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mature_girlfriend
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Oct 07, 2007 - 05:29 PM |
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Thanks, I appreciate all the efforts, from explaining how to hook up with Japanese wifes to the more classic advice of visiting expat events. Gives something to think about.
Please write more, if you have ideas. You can even go on unwinding the prostitute jokes, I don't mind. |
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dhcp
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Oct 07, 2007 - 10:37 PM |
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Doood, not all older women are mature! I know chicks in their early-mid 20's who have more maturity due to life experiences, travel, career, programs/conferences/professional development courses compared to some women in their mid-30's!!!!!! Scary ..... I know ...
From what I read you're after something that is potentially quite difficult .... think about it for 1 split second..... from the female perspective ... single women in their mid-30's are most probably career oriented and independent who do not need a stable man in their lives, or they want to get married and have babies!?! And if they are on the hunt, they'd probably be looking for a man that is older than themselves ... but these are just generalisations of course ... for all i know you could be a 25y.o. VP, with an MBA from an Ivy League and swings around in a twin-turbo 911 .... or maybe not.
But yeah, have to agree with elbow .... do what you like doing .... need not be SHEX events, and you might meet someone. Also I dont want to disappoint you, I have plenty of hooker jokes .... but they can wait 
PS. whats wrong with mature 25yo chicks (if they exist)? thought about them apples? |
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mature_girlfriend
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Oct 07, 2007 - 11:29 PM |
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Yes, it seems quite hard to find a woman, who would want this relationship. I would love to meet young mature girls, and I had, don't remember how long ago it was. Also, I agree that money is very helpful, for some reason I feel I could get their interest much faster if I had a lot of money.
What are these expat events? There used to be some ads on the main page, but now it's changed, I can't find anything except the weekend coffee meetings. |
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dhcp
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Oct 07, 2007 - 11:49 PM |
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| ...Also, I agree that money is very helpful, for some reason I feel I could get their interest much faster if I had a lot of money. |
But dont worry too much about the cash, as if it shouldnt really be a reason for their interest ... chicks can be quite shallow -- one track mind (but hey guys are too ..... so .... I guess its even .... riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiite *ducks and hides*)
Just do what you do and you'll find interesting ppl, you might not feel the sudden urge to bone all of them (simultaneously), and not all of them might be girls .... but at least you'll have fun. Hey, we should go on a date ....(joke dude) ....
But seriously, don't feel too bad - been here for a few weeks myself and havent met one remotely interesting, SH with a population of 16B, I'm sure there are shiet loads of guys in the same situation. Sad sad losers. Lets start a club! =P
Sorry I cant help on the events - but yu888 answered one of my gazzilion questions and you can register for the newsletter ..... top left hand side with the blurb "Join the Shanghai Expat News in the Mail"
Hope it helps. Just go do your thang son!!!!! |
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ULNBcn
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Oct 08, 2007 - 12:00 AM |
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Hi mgf,
I don't know what you mean by mature. It is usually a category inside the kinkiest prn websies (so my friends inform me). But the same friends tell me that they usually stay clear from it as it starts at 50y.o and on.
No really, I don't know what you mean by mature, but SH is the kind of place where 35yo single women would be very career oriented and ambitious, the hysterical boss that nobody wants to have. If that turns you on, you are in for some fun here. Just join any business/entrepreneurs event and you will be spoilt. |
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