* Get your questions answered by tens of thousands of community members
* Network with expats and english speakers living in Shanghai
* Find like-minded people in a sometimes intimidating environment
* GET ONE MONTH FREE GUANXI SMS LOOKUP SERVICE
           close
Remember?
  Forum FAQForum FAQ   SearchSearch   PreferencesPreferences  Watched TopicsWatched Topics  Watched ForumsWatched Forums
Log in to check your private messages Log in to check your private messages    Log inLog in   Ignored Users

Post new topic   Reply to topic
View previous topic Printable version Log in to check your private messages View next topic
Author Message
now-on-hereOffline
Lurker
Lurker


Joined: Oct 26, 2007
Posts: 21

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:00 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: Comming to SH-is it as good as they say??

Hi everyone, just been told that I am on the way to SH after end Q1 08 from australia for at least 3 years. Executive with a US multinational, office in Pudong. Divorced, wont be accompanied, late 40's, pretty good health etc. Neither fat or balding LOL!! I do like to party a bit-2nd life I suppose.
Enough about me. I have heard that SH is fantastic to live and to experience. The expat community is pretty good and all that. I havent done a pre visit or anything as yet. The company is paying a pretty good package. Where would some great places to live close to pudong?

Cheers M...
View user's profile MSN Messenger
me_myself_&_iOffline
Reacher
Reacher


Joined: Oct 15, 2007
Posts: 244

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:29 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

if you like a good party may be you want to live in puxi?
this is where most of the good places are ............. the bad ones too i suppose what is good for one is not necessaraly good for others/

from what you write about you it looks like you are advertising for you to find a girl already.

if your office is in pudong with the traffic you may want also consider living in pudong depends on your priorities.

there is many threads on this website about housing already just make a search and you will find it.

welcome to china ........ i mean shanghai (shanghai is not china not really representative of it)
View user's profile
Juan_TamadOnline!
Board Royalty
Board Royalty


Joined: Jan 29, 2007
Posts: 6269
Location: Smoky Mountain
Status: Online!
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:32 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Welcome to Shanghai.

Pudong's fine to live in, but Puxi is better to enjoy life with.
View user's profile AIM Address
now-on-hereOffline
Lurker
Lurker


Joined: Oct 26, 2007
Posts: 21

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:32 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

ta for that, sorry I wasnt advertisng myself. Just putting me in context thats all.
"one who needs to advertise ones self never makes a sale".
View user's profile MSN Messenger
cantcheckemailnopw
LoopKicker
LoopKicker


Joined: Dec 27, 2006
Posts: 830

Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:48 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

"from Australia" is the only description needed to have a good time in Shanghai. (unless you're aborigine)
View user's profile
SeaweedOffline
Barker
Barker


Joined: Jan 06, 2007
Posts: 178

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:51 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

"one who needs to advertise ones self never makes a sale".

O no worries, mate! Consider yourself sold. From what you described of yourself, SH girls will be throwing themselves at you as soon as you land and you can't pry them off fast enough. Bring yourself some blue bills 'cuz you're gonna be busy! Wink
View user's profile
One_Brick_ShyOffline
Rocker
Rocker


Joined: May 20, 2004
Posts: 765
Location: Out looking for a brick, of course.
Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:56 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Cool as a cucumber... how many PMs so far?

_________________
The only difference between you and me is that you're you and I'm me.
View user's profile MSN Messenger
LordlunchalotOffline
SuperStar
SuperStar


Joined: Apr 23, 2007
Posts: 1379

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 01:56 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

The context sounds like you need to live in Puxi. You could have a great second life here.
Pudong is a big area, depends very much where in Pudong your office is, you may be able to commute. Also depends on your office hours, if you can avoid the peak times, the commute is not too bad.
I start late and finish late, if you can do the same then its no problem.
View user's profile
greenish11Offline
Newbie


Joined: Oct 13, 2007
Posts: 4
Location: Seoul
Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 02:07 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

just one to thing to remember for your safety..
plz don't forget to turn your head left and right before you cross the road even at the green right. you may never know when you are going to be hit.. they drive cars quite wild here.

except for that it depends on how adjustable you are to this new enviornment. if i put my two cents' worth.. it has many things to see, fun and dynamic. but you may miss good services ,clean air or sometimes open-minded people.
View user's profile Yahoo Messenger
NCD22Offline
Reacher
Reacher


Joined: Sep 18, 2003
Posts: 209
Location: Shanghai, PRC
Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 02:41 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Well, it is alright for a while, however Shanghai never really filled the gap left from Maoming Rd and the night life now is but a mere semblance of the bohemian madness that it used to be... But there are some decent pubs/clubs and if you are single, finding young nubile local girls is not terribly difficult, although that is also not nearly as easy as it used to be...

_________________
Wink››NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH THE REAL THING‹‹Wink
View user's profile
CoffeeHawk_0
Board Buddha
Board Buddha


Joined: July 14, 2005
Posts: 14444

Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 03:07 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Shanghai is divided by a river, to the East is Pudong, to the west is Puxi.
You'll need a 'look-see' trip to figure out which side you want to live on.
If you have a demanding job, you may want to live close to your work, in Pudong, but near the river so you can get to Puxi easily. If you can afford the time to go out 4 times a week, you may want to live in Puxi.
View user's profile Yahoo Messenger MSN Messenger
loggerOffline
Newbie


Joined: Oct 17, 2007
Posts: 2

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 03:33 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Mate, where abouts in Pudong is your office?

I suggest staying somewhere close to Lujiazui - which is pretty much close to the river on the Pudong side. All the nightlife occurs on the Puxi side, however if you were to stay in Lujiazui you are really only about a 15-20 min taxi ride (or even Metro) to the Puxi areas... I do spend quite a bit of time on the Puxi side also.

I myself am staying on the Pudong side, due to work also being on that side and I have no troubles getting home from Puxi at any time. Sure beats having to spend longer trying to get to and from work every day...

I'm also from Australia - pay attention to what greenish has just said. It took me a while to get used to looking the other way (left) first... almost got run over (by bikes) a few times already. Just to repeat, they do drive like wild here...
View user's profile
chingiskhanOffline
StreetBeater
StreetBeater


Joined: Apr 24, 2007
Posts: 2244
Location: Shanghai
Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 06:12 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Even if you were fat and balding you'd have no problem finding girls to hang out with you, trust me (even though I'm also not yet fat and balding).
View user's profile
now-on-hereOffline
Lurker
Lurker


Joined: Oct 26, 2007
Posts: 21

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 07:37 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Thanks everyone. No I havent received any pm's as yet. Must be a quite night LOL! Looking forward to hitting the town, I am not shy and like company LOL! Work in automotive but will be travelling a fair bit from SH.

M...
View user's profile MSN Messenger
me_myself_&_iOffline
Reacher
Reacher


Joined: Oct 15, 2007
Posts: 244

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 08:13 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

if you like company and are not shy you will find some in tongren lu
plenty of it as a matter of fact for the modest price of 1.000rmb (last time iwas there that was the asking price ahhahaahah) but beware of those ladyboys.
View user's profile
now-on-hereOffline
Lurker
Lurker


Joined: Oct 26, 2007
Posts: 21

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 08:28 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

mmmm, try not buy, in fact cant remember when I last did. I am an ex sailor so fully aware of 'ladyboys' LOL

M...
View user's profile MSN Messenger
fritobuggerOffline
Lurker
Lurker


Joined: Apr 02, 2007
Posts: 27

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 08:52 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Quit the job and stay in Oz. This place is death. It will suck the life out of you. When it and the soul sucking who.res that inhabit it.

Vile, evil, death house.

Very much a turd in gift wrapping.
View user's profile Visit poster's website
now-on-hereOffline
Lurker
Lurker


Joined: Oct 26, 2007
Posts: 21

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 09:23 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

thats a real positive help.............
View user's profile MSN Messenger
DragonAssOffline
Fire-eater
Fire-eater


Joined: Apr 25, 2005
Posts: 2566

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 10:31 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

fritobugger wrote:
Quit the job and stay in Oz. This place is death. It will suck the life out of you. When it and the soul sucking who.res that inhabit it.

Vile, evil, death house.

Very much a turd in gift wrapping.


hihiii... some SH gals stepped on your foot, mate?? Wink
View user's profile
travelinjack3Offline
FooJay
FooJay


Joined: Sep 19, 2005
Posts: 1718
Location: Right Bank
Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 11:01 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Sounds like somebody had a rough week.

_________________
If the billy goat was Bootsie and the troll was Maceo, then only the Godfather of Soul can really take you to the bridge.
View user's profile Visit poster's website
mrpangoOffline
Low Seater
Low Seater


Joined: Jan 26, 2007
Posts: 3274

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 26, 2007 - 11:43 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

If I knew Shanghai was like this before I moved here, I would never have come here Razz (although I'm in Hangzhou now until Wednesday).

Shanghai does drain me, the mrs can't stand the place anymore either (we were on line 1 getting to shanghai south station around 6:40pm today)

_________________
Well, may as well start a blog http://www.sinocracy.com/ - click at your leisure!
View user's profile
LordlunchalotOffline
SuperStar
SuperStar


Joined: Apr 23, 2007
Posts: 1379

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 27, 2007 - 12:11 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Come on, Shanghai is awesome but frightening for your first 3 months. 3-6 months you wish you were back home. After 6 months you go to some beach in SE Asia for a week. Shanghai is awesome again. Now you know a few people and have a few locals to hang out in, you also have enough taxi chinglish to get by. You feel good about yourself. Then China kicks you in the guts for a couple of months, its crap. Then you feel like you have earned your stripes, its still hard but you have some drinking buddies. You are now king.
View user's profile
babebibobuOffline
LoopKicker
LoopKicker


Joined: Sep 29, 2007
Posts: 946

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 27, 2007 - 12:28 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Somehow by reading his posts I get this impression this "LOL" guy is going to raise the level of the Australian community in Shanghai.

_________________
I'm dancing with tears in my eyes... 'cause the girl in my arms is a boy
View user's profile
CoffeeHawk_0
Board Buddha
Board Buddha


Joined: July 14, 2005
Posts: 14444

Post  Posted: Oct 27, 2007 - 08:57 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

^no, he's too positive, after the honeymoon period he'll crash hard. It's better to have a little fear of the unknown - expect the worst and hope for the best, don't assume an expat assignment in such a vastly culture is a one way ticket to Disneyland. It's better to knock the crap out of the OP now so he'll be used to the subway rides once he gets here.
View user's profile Yahoo Messenger MSN Messenger
spandexOffline
Raver
Raver


Joined: June 06, 2006
Posts: 478

Status: Offline
Post  Posted: Oct 27, 2007 - 09:40 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Better to be coming to Shanghai from Oz than going to Oz from Shanghai. As a single 40 something on a good package, you will enjoy immensely but, as has been pointed out, will suffer some culture shock and frustration, a small price to pay, and talking of paying, forget about the "modest price of 1,000 rmb" girls, no need to pay to play in Shanghai. I agree with the "live close to work" and travel to your nightlife sentiments though live close to the river in Pudong, and/or near a Line 2 metro station for easy access to Puxi.

_________________
If moths like the light so much why do they only come out when its dark?
View user's profile
Display posts from previous:     
Jump to:  
All times are GMT + 8 Hours
Post new topic   Reply to topic
View previous topic Printable version Log in to check your private messages View next topic
Powered by MDForum 2.0.7© 2003-2007 MAXdev Team
Credits
Welcome Guest

Username
Password
Remember me
Register Here!
Join the Shanghai Expat News in the Mail
Email:

Latest Newsletters
Events in Shanghai
November 18, 2008


Members
November 25, 2008


Discounts
November 27, 2008


Web ShanghaiExpat

Welcome Guest
Join Us!

Register, it's free!
 Create an account
Members: Online
Members: Members:84
Guests: Guests:595
Total: Total:679

    Home    Sitemap    Terms of Service    Privacy Policy     Contact Us    Advertising 

All logos and trademarks on this site are property of their respective owner. The comments and forum posts are property of their posters, all the rest copyright 1999-2008 by Max Intermedia LTD.

Powered by MD-Pro