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Post  Posted: Feb 21, 2008 - 10:28 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: looking for a date

Dear Friends,

I am looking for a date for meaningful relationship.

msn me if you are interested.

If this post is a disturbance to you, then I apologize and please ignore it.

Best wishes,

Aimee
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See my photos:

http://aimeeliu.hi5.com

I am looking for meaningful relationship.
If not, then I am sorry, I may not reply.

He who is serious about finding a date, then let's talk.
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Nadee Ning.

Zhang Hai Ning 4tw.

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PM TheMasterofDisaster. He's waiting for you.

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Post  Posted: Feb 21, 2008 - 04:37 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

AimeeLiu wrote:
See my photos:

http://aimeeliu.hi5.com

I am looking for meaningful relationship.
If not, then I am sorry, I may not reply.

He who is serious about finding a date, then let's talk.



he who is serious about relating with his girl, then just go for that~~~~

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is tha you Nat or is it Yogi

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dr3x320 wrote:
Nadee Ning.

Zhang Hai Ning 4tw.


I can't quite catch you, could you make it clearer? Thank you.
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Goosie wrote:
PM TheMasterofDisaster. He's waiting for you.


Thank you, Goosie and Magnolia, for the suggestion.

However, I am not sure whether it is just a joke or you are serious.

If it is the latter, could you tell me why you think so?

I am listening...
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is tha you Nat or is it Yogi


What do you mean by Nat and Yogi? I may sound ridiculous asking, but would appreciate it if you could tell me.
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What sort of guy are you looking for ? Tall, short, young, old, money, no money, house, no house............or just look for short time love...... what is a meaningful relationship ?

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BONNIE wrote:
What sort of guy are you looking for ? Tall, short, young, old, money, no money, house, no house............or just look for short time love...... what is a meaningful relationship ?


Dear Bonnie,

I really appreciate your thoughtful and honest questoins.

Height --I am 161 cm, i hope he could be preferable more than 172.
Age -- I am 25, so i prefer he could be within 24-35.
Money -- I work as an assistant to general manager, though my salary is not high, i don't need much money. I hope he has a job.
House -- Shanghai house is expensive, though i could get a loan, but renting a house is fine with me.
Time -- Lifelong relationship would be wonderful, my attitude is " marriage or love could not be pursued, but to be attracted by the person you will become".

Dear Bonnie, thanks for really thinking into this subject, welcome to discuss with me any other questions you may have.

Nice day!


Regards,

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AimeeLiu wrote:
dr3x320 wrote:
Nadee Ning.

Zhang Hai Ning 4tw.


I can't quite catch you, could you make it clearer? Thank you.


Zhang Hai Ning = Shanghainese for "Shanghainese".

Nadee Ning = the pple you see working in bistros, selling oranges, etc.

But I should actually correct myself, the more "Nadee Ning" living in SH and having children, they actually grow up and adapt to the "Shanghainese culture", in about 5-10years, there won't be a difference anymore, just like the same with "Gang Paw Ning", they migrated to SH a long time ago, then had children in SH, and now you can't tell the difference. Same thing thats happening now.

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Post  Posted: Feb 22, 2008 - 02:43 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Zhang Hai Ning = Shanghainese for "Shanghainese".

Nadee Ning = the pple you see working in bistros, selling oranges, etc.

Thank you. I am from outside Shanghai), coutryside near a coastal city in southeast China. You are right that some Nadee Ning become Shanghainese.

Let's believe
"what makes people close to or distant between one another
is not-- not where they come from,
but rather -- whether they understand and respect each other's choices."

Thanks for the understanding.
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Post  Posted: Feb 22, 2008 - 03:53 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Dear AimeeLiu,

You seem to be a very nice girl and you have pretty nice English too !

I wish you lots of luck in finding a date.

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is tha you Nat or is it Yogi



he who asked this question for fun,was the man who wanna **** in hell,me nathalie25 never changed~~~~

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Hello! Nathalie25,

It seems that you are quite familiar with Shanghai. I have just been here for one year.

If you don't mind, could i ask for your advice about finding a boyfriend? I feel that you have something to say, you could PM or email me if you prefer.

If not, then i still thank you for supporting this post.

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Hey Aimee, is this offer only open for white guys?
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AimeeLiu wrote:
Hello! Nathalie25,

It seems that you are quite familiar with Shanghai. I have just been here for one year.

If you don't mind, could i ask for your advice about finding a boyfriend? I feel that you have something to say, you could PM or email me if you prefer.

If not, then i still thank you for supporting this post.

Aimee
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I AAam looking for a strong-minded, confident, forceful and very independent man~

AimeeLiu, are you Arseny????????

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AimeeLiu wrote:
I am looking for meaningful relationship.

I was going to ask about how you feel about cheap meaningless sex but oh well ... anyhoo, your photos #7 thru about #14, place looks like fun. Where is that ?
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sixminutes wrote:
Hey Aimee, is this offer only open for white guys?


Thank you for asking, Sixminutes. The fact is I am now trying to attend a Chinese Dating TV program to look for a boyfriend, too.

A boyfriend,to me, is someone who is a boy and my closest friend. He does not necessarily have to be white.

What matters is not where he comes from, but whether he and I can be together to go on the journey of exploring life.


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Post subject: Re: online date

kavin_7 wrote:
you are looking anyone for date for meaningful relationship. then why you are not try anyone online dating community ,it is available on the net ,you can join any one community for it ,and choose as your according.


I really appreciate your sincerity and help, Kavin.

I did try to join some and chatted on line, but people seemed not serious and they did not regard my sincerity seriously.

I went to Toastmaster once and heard that Shanghaiexpat.com is a place to meet people, so I thought this may be a place where there are true people.

Of course, i did attend many activities and went to music bars,etc, but normally people just wanted to know about my job or just wanted to learn Chinese.

Now my colleages suggest me to participate in a Chinese Dating TV Program, so I am trying to apply for the entry.

Wish me good luck, Kavin and thanks again for your true concern.



Regards,

Aimee

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leidelaohu wrote:
AimeeLiu wrote:
I am looking for meaningful relationship.

I was going to ask about how you feel about cheap meaningless sex but oh well ... anyhoo, your photos #7 thru about #14, place looks like fun. Where is that ?


Thanks for asking, Leidelaohu.

Let me take cooking soup for an example. I like to cook soups as I am from Southern China. Normally the soup is steamed for at least two hours.

While drinking soup, normally it is the soup that is nutrient and the meats are not. So most of the time, the meat are disposed.

Cheap meanlingless sex,to me, is just like meat in the soup, which are overcooked and tasteless.

Sorry, this is my choice. But if others chooses to eat the "meat", then I their choices should be respected,too.



The place from photo 4# to 14# were taken in southwest China, a place called Yellow River Waterfall, it is very original and natural.

As it is not very commercially advertised yet, tourists are not a lot, there.

We could discuss more if you are interested.


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AimeeLiu wrote:
Hello! Nathalie25,

It seems that you are quite familiar with Shanghai. I have just been here for one year.

If you don't mind, could i ask for your advice about finding a boyfriend? I feel that you have something to say, you could PM or email me if you prefer.

If not, then i still thank you for supporting this post.

Aimee
aimeeliu1@gmail.com



I AAam looking for a strong-minded, confident, forceful and very independent man~

AimeeLiu, are you Arseny????????



Thank you for telling me what you think, Nathalie. I did consider about what you said.

Though I can't quite understand why you thought so, I still appreciate your honesty.
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Post  Posted: Feb 27, 2008 - 02:25 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

right...

Aimee, you might want to try the classfieds, unless you really WANT us to start discussing about your love life or your potential love life or how to get a love life in detail.

As for ideas, well.. for a start don't let anyone tell you Tong Ren Lu is a good place to look.
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