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lovelybaobao13
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Mar 26, 2008 - 09:12 PM |
 
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it is wired that we always see chinese dating foreigners, but seldom see chinese boy dating foreigners.
can anyone explain it?
or i misunderstand it as most those chinses girls are chicks? |
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CoffeeHawk_0
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Mar 26, 2008 - 10:00 PM |
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the numbers are equal, it's just that Chinese guys aren't afraid to jump in bed, and stay there for the whole weekend with their foreign girlfriend. The foreign guys on the other hand, need to walk around, go shopping, buy lunch and dinner, do some more shopping...repeat |
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findus
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Mar 27, 2008 - 03:42 AM |
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Erm, generally, western chicks aren't that into the local guys, and western guys are more open to approaching local chicks. A quick calculation should suffice. |
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sanjj
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Mar 27, 2008 - 04:44 AM |
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The truth is generally white chicks have quite a different taste than to date asian guys and white dudes are basically lack of taste. 
I can totally see eggs thrown at me while walking down Huahai Rd. haha
Ok, joke(some truth to it) aside, there is definitely a disparity when it comes to inter-racial dating. It's changing slowly, but it'll never catch up to the number of WM/AF couples. Lik it or not, nothing we can do. |
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CIA
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Mar 27, 2008 - 09:03 AM |
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Quote / Unquote Western women have much different standards of men. The majority of Asian males do not fit into this broad stereotype in several ways: hygiene, wealth, physical prowess, etc. I'm not cutting Asian males down, just illustrating the difference of the norm characteristics of a "Western" male vs. an "Eastern / Asian" male.
Usually (as someone already implied) Western women have higher standards and a larger selection pool to choose from. I also believe that with Western women they are extremely 'binary' in their attraction to Asian males, it's either they are or they're not, nothing in the middle. |
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seabreeze98
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Mar 27, 2008 - 10:42 AM |
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As long as they're happy, who cares if they're dating a foreigner or local. Old or young. Fugly or drop dead gorgeous/handsome. |
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Natali
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Mar 27, 2008 - 11:00 AM |
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Why its hard for me to find a Chinese guy to date:
1. As CIA said, most of them do not care about hygiene at all. It's scary to look at their nails, hair and clothes sometimes. I don't even wanna mention ears 
2. All those "natural" sounds that they can do in public kill even a small spark of attraction
3. They almost never use perfume (and i love when a man smell good perfume)
This list is not too long, but really, it’s hard to find a guy who would be different from all above. On the other hand, Chinese guys are very caring and soft, and this is their best feature i think |
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lovelybaobao13
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Mar 29, 2008 - 10:31 AM |
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lucar
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Joined: July 05, 2004
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Mar 29, 2008 - 12:33 PM |
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| lovelybaobao13 wrote: |
it is wired that we always see chinese dating foreigners, but seldom see chinese boy dating foreigners.
can anyone explain it?
or i misunderstand it as most those chinses girls are chicks? |
I like chinese boi. Come to daddy. PM me. |
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Danzeth
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Mar 29, 2008 - 05:35 PM |
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It's because we guys all like virgins, ok??
You can even tell from the poll results in that other thread. |
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BONNIE
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Mar 29, 2008 - 06:41 PM |
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the numbers are equal, it's just that Chinese guys aren't afraid to jump in bed, and stay there for the whole weekend with their foreign girlfriend. The foreign guys on the other hand, need to walk around, go shopping, buy lunch and dinner, do some more shopping...repeat
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SnappySammy
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Mar 29, 2008 - 10:18 PM |
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and you are walking around and going shopping |
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BONNIE
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Nah, I was cooking dinner to keep him strong....... |
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PG-30
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Mar 30, 2008 - 11:25 AM |
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| Nah, I was cooking dinner to keep him strong....... |
dont believe any penis dishes,keep feeding him oysters and bird nests . |
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after27
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Mar 30, 2008 - 11:44 AM |
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Bonnie, you are the optional...
Its v weird...coz you walking on the streets of Melb, you rarely can see v identical Grk guys with asian galfriends....huh? why is that...?? |
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findus
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Mar 31, 2008 - 12:49 AM |
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^ So erm, why does the metro smell like mouldy cabbage during summer? |
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Juan_Tamad
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Mar 31, 2008 - 08:28 AM |
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Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good
Woody Allen |
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Swiss-James
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Apr 01, 2008 - 11:38 AM |
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| my decent shoes which all have my name on the bottom is beyond the affordability of most of you guys |
Isn't this a Notorious BIG lyric? |
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chazha
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Apr 04, 2008 - 10:26 AM |
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Im open for both:-D |
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chazha
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Apr 04, 2008 - 10:26 AM |
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btw I do prefer to have a foreigner as GF but a local as wife. |
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timtop
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Apr 06, 2008 - 09:19 AM |
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^ me too, everywhere i go....... |
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SnappySammy
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Apr 06, 2008 - 12:05 PM |
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Bonnie, you are the optional...
Its v weird...coz you walking on the streets of Melb, you rarely can see v identical Grk guys with asian galfriends....huh? why is that...?? |
They are working on their PHDs |
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MissVicki
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Apr 09, 2008 - 09:26 PM |
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I'm not a big fan of Asian men but even if I were they tend not to approach western women (unless it's to sell you handbags or practise English in People's Park) |
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zinco
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Apr 09, 2008 - 11:54 PM |
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...what a simple Q....
most of Chinese gurls are nice,caring...blah blah blah.So,they're popular.
LOL.Take me as an example,I'm mostly Chinese (part of Russian),but I never have a Chinese boyfriend (any boyfriend,actually).I guess that because I'm not a TOTALLY Chinese kid.
As far as I see,only a few of Chinese girls who date with non-Chinese huys are pretty.(the personality thing is another story) However,the Taste thing is queer question.
I assume that Chinese gurls are taught to be unreasonably adorable when dating or in love,kinda silly though.(excuse me)----Maybe that's why they're more popular. |
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Nathalie25
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Apr 10, 2008 - 12:11 PM |
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| I assume that Chinese gurls are taught to be unreasonably adorable when dating or in love,kinda silly though.(excuse me)----Maybe that's why they're more popular. |
me also was unreasonably adorable when I refused to date with anyone in my last 3 years~~~~~~ |
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