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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 06:09 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: my girlfriend is a cheater

how can i obtain her hotmail password - important
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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 06:55 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

If she is chating, or you think she is...you are looking for her hotmail so you can get "evidence"?

With so little trust there already?
And you cannot talk to her about it apparently....must break into her "personal e-Life"

why bother.....walk.

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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 07:44 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

JoeJoe this is not a court of law. You don't have tp prove it. If you think it, get a new girlfriend...

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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 08:31 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: Re: my girlfriend is a cheater

joejoe1 wrote:
how can i obtain her hotmail password - important


Does she have automatic login on her computer? Just go use her computer. Or if she uses MSN, check if she saves chat history in My Documents > My recieved files > *****@hotmail.com

Is she Chinese or foreign?

Story please.
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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 08:35 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Bring the computer to a tech, 50RMB should do it. I hope it's a laptop.

Good luck buddy.
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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 09:20 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

With a population as big as Shanghai, theres plenty of fish in the sea, play the game playa. Cuz it seems your getting played.

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So what if you get the "evidence"? Will this make you/her feel better? Will this change the fact that she is cheating or has cheated on you?

If you can't find the evidence, will you have the same trust in her and love her like when you first met her?

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I'm sorry, but this is such a typical Chinese scenario.

Girl cheats on her boyfriend (actually many Chinese girls don't have boyfriends they have stock options that they juggle around), boy suspects that she's seeing other guys behind his back (try stopping playing computer games for less than 6 hours a day and spend some time with her instead) and then - and this is the cracker - instead of having the balls to confront her about it he tries to do the sneaky act behind her back.

Absolute classic.

I'm not any advice to you Joe as you are a gutless little turd.

The girl deserves better than you. Much better.

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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 10:23 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

what the hell do you want to do with her password? check her emails? send out messages to people? if you are at that stage then it is time to move on.

maturity is a wonderul thing. once you are there, you will understand.

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I'm sorry, but this is such a typical Chinese scenario.

Girl cheats on her boyfriend (actually many Chinese girls don't have boyfriends they have stock options that they juggle around), boy suspects that she's seeing other guys behind his back (try stopping playing computer games for less than 6 hours a day and spend some time with her instead) and then - and this is the cracker - instead of having the balls to confront her about it he tries to do the sneaky act behind her back.

Absolute classic.

I'm not any advice to you Joe as you are a gutless little turd.

The girl deserves better than you. Much better.


You know what they say about assumptions right?
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Magnolia wrote:
what the hell do you want to do with her password? check her emails? send out messages to people? if you are at that stage then it is time to move on.

maturity is a wonderul thing. once you are there, you will understand.


Just a thought... but how about to find out whether the gf really is cheating on him?
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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 10:28 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top
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joejoe1 wrote:
how can i obtain her hotmail password - important


who is your girl friend, anything you can show us that someone here is your girl friend??????????????? have you got something for your girl friend when her birthday came to her?

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I'm sorry, but this is such a typical Chinese scenario.

Girl cheats on her boyfriend (actually many Chinese girls don't have boyfriends they have stock options that they juggle around), boy suspects that she's seeing other guys behind his back (try stopping playing computer games for less than 6 hours a day and spend some time with her instead) and then - and this is the cracker - instead of having the balls to confront her about it he tries to do the sneaky act behind her back.

Absolute classic.

I'm not any advice to you Joe as you are a gutless little turd.

The girl deserves better than you. Much better.


You know what they say about assumptions right?


The mother of all fcuk-ups, right?

Like this guys relationship with his girlfriend.

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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 10:29 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

you guys so harsh~~~~~~~

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The mother of all fcuk-ups, right?

Like this guys relationship with his girlfriend.


I just think its interesting that you know all about this guys life and the relationship with his gf from so few lines! Kreskin got nothing on you!
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Post  Posted: May 19, 2008 - 10:40 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

dfoo wrote:
Magnolia wrote:
what the hell do you want to do with her password? check her emails? send out messages to people? if you are at that stage then it is time to move on.

maturity is a wonderul thing. once you are there, you will understand.


Just a thought... but how about to find out whether the gf really is cheating on him?


in all honesty, because i find the method horrible. he has no business reading her private email or accessing the account. besides, if she had an inkling of intelligence then she wouldn't keep contact with lovers via any email account he knew about.

sorry, spying like that just doesn't sit well with me. if the relationship was the type where everything was known and shared, then he would have the password. obviously, it is not that type of relationship but because he has suspicions, invading her privacy isn't acceptable.

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So cheating is acceptable?
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sorry, spying like that just doesn't sit well with me. if the relationship was the type where everything was known and shared, then he would have the password. obviously, it is not that type of relationship but because he has suspicions, invading her privacy isn't acceptable

I wonder that some woman she really has her real privacy or not after she posts her words daily in here????????
if I spent 3 years on reading the posts of someone in here daily from days to nights, I think I would never have chances to meet others for fun, no trusts between this man & that woman, I should say~~~~~~~

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the acceptability of cheating is not the topic. the means of confirmation is.

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the acceptability of cheating is not the topic. the means of confirmation is

MAGNOLIA, YOU SO GREAT~~~~~~~~~~

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I bet Bougie has had her...

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SnappySammy wrote:
I bet Bougie has had her...


HC is Mine, OK????????

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you guys all game for knowing your requirement is ended now, over

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That_Chinese_Girl wrote:
So what if you get the "evidence"? Will this make you/her feel better? Will this change the fact that she is cheating or has cheated on you?

If you can't find the evidence, will you have the same trust in her and love her like when you first met her?


It's like this I know That Chinese Girl has cheated on me. But if she wants me, I'll be happy to do her.
Now thats true love...

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The mother of all fcuk-ups, right?

Like this guys relationship with his girlfriend.


I just think its interesting that you know all about this guys life and the relationship with his gf from so few lines! Kreskin got nothing on you!


I don't know. I'm guessing. I'm ASSuming, dfoo.


But - I bet I'm right.

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