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Post  Posted: July 02, 2008 - 10:30 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Try 8 times fail 7.

Get a buddy and do the 50 by 50 plan. You talk to 50 girls in 50 days. It will make your pimp hand strong.

Focus on getting a number first. Get them into bead later.

Chinese girls aren't the one night stand type.

Business cards works or just a cell phone. I have so many numbers of girls I cannot remeber or both of us dont speak enough english.

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Post  Posted: July 02, 2008 - 10:43 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

feel the culture difference?

lol
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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 10:11 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Nat is that why you follow me around shanghai expat?
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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 10:41 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I follow Chamaflauge because I like him, but just too many guys in here they wanna join our meeting and just too many issues it cannot be stably to deal with it by those inbalanced argument, I am afraid if Chamaflauge wants to stay in here, then I must be disappeared for disgracing myself in my futures~~~~~~~~

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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 10:48 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I follow Chamaflauge because I like him, but just too many guys in here they wanna join our meeting and just too many issues it cannot be stably to deal with it by those inbalanced argument, I am afraid if Chamaflauge wants to stay in here, then I must be disappeared for disgracing myself in my futures~~~~~~~~

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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 03:22 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

A pick up line that actually might work is..
hey, I recognize your face, have we met before....that kind of line always continue to something else Smile
Go to coffeeshops/book stores/library. But don't totally ignore the bars and clubs to find girls, you can see if it's a tacky shanghainese girl or a classy shanghainese girl just by the way they dress.

Good luck!

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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 04:30 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

IMO, there is NO good looking Shanghainese girl. Last time when I was on Huaihai Rd, I saw four European girls stepped out of the taxi….And Oh My God, they look just like models literally cut out of magazines……so my advice is go to a better country and find decent women—NOT some shallow SH girls in Shanghai if you don’t ever get cheated or manipulated. Seriously.
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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 04:32 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

in my office there are really lots of cute shanghainese girls, sweet, kind and smart.
so i will just ignore your ignorance. Ha!

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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 04:49 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

This is what I would call empty promise. If you put “Zhang ziyi” type beside of one of the aforementioned WOMEN, there is NO comparison and not to mention the HUGE difference between Western and Easten (Chinese ) mentality. One is Civilized and one is NOT !!!!
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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 05:01 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

The problem is no start, no end, if things get started, then finally it will be ended in some further day, but people hate that,even they don't want to face it~~~~

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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 05:22 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

empty boxes with pretty giftwrap.

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Post  Posted: July 03, 2008 - 05:51 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

What a trick and you can find it plenty here where they have nicest wrappings but fake or junk stuff underneath...Watch out Shocked !!!
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Post  Posted: July 04, 2008 - 08:39 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Its still possible to find a gem inside one of those pretty boxes...specially if the box was not from Shanghai.

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