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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 09:59 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: why virgins?

Hi guys,
I read this in another post and have been wondering since:
Why do men (supposedly) prefer virgins?
Apart from the nice, young, firm body what do these innocent, inexperienced girls have to offer? Is it some kind of pioneer-thing, like venturing into territory where no man has ever been?
I'd think sex gets better with more experience and more knowledge of one's own body...am I wrong?
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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 10:07 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

my guess is that it is an ego thing.. you know, breaking them in and all. plus, there is probably a thrill of visiting a land not yet explored...

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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 10:38 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

do you like to share very private stuff with others?you prefer second hand gears?I think same deal here.
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rofl wrote:
do you like to share very private stuff with others?you prefer second hand gears?I think same deal here.


Exactly everyone likes to have shiny new things rather than something that's been broken in. It's that "new car smell." And yes its also an ego thing. Everything is an ego thing.
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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 10:59 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

rofl wrote:
do you like to share very private stuff with others?you prefer second hand gears?I think same deal here.


how silly. way to apply the double standard!

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Magnolia wrote:
rofl wrote:
do you like to share very private stuff with others?you prefer second hand gears?I think same deal here.


how silly. way to apply the double standard!


It's ALWAYS a double standard!
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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 11:14 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

^exactly the reason why some men don't admit to enjoying someone who knows that they are doing. pffttt! are men fkucing the ideal or the person?

don't answer that!

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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 11:16 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Don't like virgins, don't like those who've been with half the town either.

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Well, if I have the choice between
1) a classic racy sportscar, where somone who knows has done some fine tuning, all ready to go and have some fun and
2) a brand new car that needs 1000 km of very careful, slow driving in order to run in the motor...
Hmm, I'd go for the fun!

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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 11:21 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Very Happy

vroom! vroom!

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Ponzonia wrote:
Well, if I have the choice between
1) a classic racy sportscar, where somone who knows has done some fine tuning, all ready to go and have some fun and
2) a brand new car that needs 1000 km of very careful, slow driving in order to run in the motor...
Hmm, I'd go for the fun!


Brand new sports car that number looks amazing, has new car smell, you know that no one has ever driven it since it got off the assembly line. Also you don't know where that's older sport cars has been, maybe it's been abused in the past, accidents, something wrong under the hood?

I'll go slow and enjoy the ride in my brand new sports car thank you very much Smile.
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Because Allah told me they are the best.

*Puts on backpack and heads to the Metro*
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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 01:03 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Ponzi -

The reason(s) that men prefer girls / women that are virgins to those that have been around and around and around the block (comparing the two extremes) are these:

1. new doesn't have diseases

2. new is tighter

3. 99% of the time when you are a girl's first she will be in love with you (emotionally attached) like super glue - so if it is truly 'that' amazing and quality the guy will have landed a very loyal partner

4. new can be trained to be as 'sexy' and 'experienced' as you want her to be - she has no other point of reference, so you can mold it to anything you want and she will normally comply

5. new will try harder as she doesn't know not to (hasn't been brainwashed into thinking that lying there dead with her legs spread is acceptable behavior for sex)

6. new will try new things because she is curious and men that are more experienced can leverage that

7. new usually turns into a nympho in a very short amount of time, think the same effect of offering someone crack for the first time - so constant desire with something that is new is a good thing for guys

8. new will last longer (more usable years) than something that is on it's last leasing term

There is a host of more reasons, but this covers the basics.

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CK1 wrote:
Because Allah told me they are the best.

*Puts on backpack and heads to the Metro*


Haha. Give me a fit pornstar over a 1000 virgins anyday
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Firstly its about respect. she has respect for herself and she respects u, so u can respect her. otherwise ur just 1 in a long line of johns

2ndly. soooo tight, feels fantastic. best thing ever.

3rdly , her pipes shud b clean so u can go bareback

4thly, non virgins are little different from prostitutes , they r not capable of loving u in the same manner or intensity. they r so sweet
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liupei wrote:
Firstly its about respect. she has respect for herself and she respects u, so u can respect her. otherwise ur just 1 in a long line of johns


Is it after she's slept with you that she looses respect for herself? Or she sleeps with you because she's lost respect for herself?? Or are you soo special that she sleeps with you even though she respects herself?
I don't quite get it how self respect connects with being a virgin...hmmm?
So after she's given up her virginity for you, can you still respect her? Or do you move on and screw the next virgin?
There has to be something besides "virgin" and "whore"...
I mean, sex can be fun and if it makes you feel good, why not enjoy it? Shows more self respect to be good to yourself IMO, that to live for the ideal.
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crivens200 wrote:
CK1 wrote:
Because Allah told me they are the best.
*Puts on backpack and heads to the Metro*

Haha. Give me a fit pornstar over a 1000 virgins anyday


Get your figures right. They are doing all this for just 72 virgins.
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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 03:06 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Not my scene at all.

Still, those who ARE into virgins are unlikely to hear something like: "What is THAT??? It's just like a penis - only smaller" (IMHO a big part of the attraction).
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I hate virgins

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huangheilong wrote:
crivens200 wrote:
CK1 wrote:
Because Allah told me they are the best.
*Puts on backpack and heads to the Metro*

Haha. Give me a fit pornstar over a 1000 virgins anyday


Get your figures right. They are doing all this for just 72 virgins.


Only 72? Jeez. Muppets.

Actually, I think they'll find that where they go to there is nothing but a dark emptiness of which they aren't even aware of.
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DesertSpider wrote:
7. new usually turns into a nympho in a very short amount of time

You have to be really good to turn her into a nympho.
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I would never do the nasty with a virgin. Too much fallout. I prefer a slut any day.
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I would never do the nasty with a virgin. Too much fallout. I prefer a slut any day.
You could do her anal and she would still stay a virgin

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Post  Posted: July 24, 2008 - 05:23 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

it is an atavistic instinct. similar to lions killing all the cubs when they tack over pride to ensure the cubs born subsequently are theirs. I mus admit I enjoy young ladies but wisdom and experience are equally enjoyable in a different way
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I would never do the nasty with a virgin. Too much fallout. I prefer a slut any day.
You could do her anal and she would still stay a virgin


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