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Post  Posted: Apr 27, 2009 - 11:20 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: ABCs (American Born Chinese) in Shanghai?

Are there a lot of ABCs or (American Born Chinese / Bananas) living in Shanghai? We look Chinese, but we're expats too!!! Just wondering if people even value Native English with Native Chinese backgrounds?
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Post  Posted: Apr 28, 2009 - 05:32 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

^ define a lot. they're not the largest expat category, if that's what u're asking. not even in the top 3.
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Post  Posted: Apr 28, 2009 - 07:56 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

It's like being at the bottom of the barrel of easy-living in Shanghai IMHO.

1) you don't get the 'special/different treatment' other non-Chinese expats get, you get pushed & shoved just like the other billion or so people around you.

2) you don't get the best bargains that local Chinese get, since once you open your mouth they know you're not a local. And sometimes, they get pissy and berate you for it.

It's like being caught between a rock and a hard place Wink


And no, I don't know that many... maybe 5 Asian-looking foreigners, tops

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Post  Posted: Apr 28, 2009 - 08:41 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

missbeverly wrote:
1) you don't get the 'special/different treatment' other non-Chinese expats get, you get pushed & shoved just like the other billion or so people around you.
u just dont know how to take advantage of the situation.
missbeverly wrote:
2) you don't get the best bargains that local Chinese get, since once you open your mouth they know you're not a local. And sometimes, they get pissy and berate you for it.
that's only if your accent gives u away. not every abc is like that.

imo, being chin-american can be extremely advantageous in SH. it all depends on each individual's skill set.
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Post  Posted: May 18, 2009 - 12:28 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

I'm an ABC but instead of American born chinese I am and Australian born Chinese and I love it. I don't get the hassel of street vendors trying to sell fake LV's or being a big target for scams. When you haggle you have fun with the vendors and they will 90% of the time lower the price for you. They will ask where are you from why do you look Chinese blah blah, and plus with broken mandarin skill they will love you for it. Just like 8lrr8 said depends on the skills set.
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Post  Posted: June 25, 2009 - 10:22 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top
Post subject: easy as 123

[quote="8lrr8"]
missbeverly wrote:
1) you don't get the 'special/different treatment' other non-Chinese expats get, you get pushed & shoved just like the other billion or so people around you.
u just dont know how to take advantage of the situation.

@8lrr8 - any suggestions on how to take advantage of the situation? or is more just having to be able to speak mandarin better?

my ABC Shanghai experience has been more along the lines of misbeverly. maybe we need to take mandarin classes.
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Post  Posted: June 25, 2009 - 11:30 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

Way back in 1993 standing in the arrivals immigration line at Honqiao airport and being the only foreigner in sight a Chinese guy in front of me kept on turning around to me. Eventually he said hello - he was an ABC. We chatted and I found out this was his first time to China and he couldn't speak Chinese at all, not a word. He asked me if I knew some Chinese and if I could teach him some such as "Thank you, Hello" which was about all I knew anyway.

So, in the line I told him that "Xie Xie" means "thank you", he repeated SHAY SHAY I corrected him now emphasising the pronunciation and tone... this went on for a while until I noticed the VERY odd and strange looks we were getting from all the Chinese in the line with us! Shocked

Being the 1990's with few foreigners not only would I get looks, but now I am "teaching" a Chinese guy how to say "Hello and Thank you" and he is not getting it! Laughing

I still think of that...

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Post  Posted: Oct 22, 2009 - 04:16 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

wonder who helped him with his Chop Sticks...

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Post  Posted: Oct 22, 2009 - 09:37 AM  Reply with quote  Back to top

missbeverly wrote:
It's like being at the bottom of the barrel of easy-living in Shanghai IMHO.

It's like being caught between a rock and a hard place Wink


Oh! Is the resulting bitterness the reason for them being so much more obnoxious than other expats? Wink
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Post  Posted: Oct 27, 2009 - 10:19 PM  Reply with quote  Back to top

i got scolded few days ago in puxi one of the restaurant.

Waiter: yes sir? (chinese)
Me : heineken please. (english mix chinese)
Waiter: huh?
Me : green color beer? (broken chinese)
Waiter: huh???
Me : coke... damn pissed off
Waiter : dont act like a laowai(chinese) while he is leaving my table.
Me : WHAT!? **** you! (stand up and pushed him)


ended with him getting fired, me getting a free meal for that night with 50% discount card. Very Happy its **** insulting man... pfft
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