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Prequel Rants to the BioFach China Organic Trade Fair

I recently went on the Biofach Eco-tour (which is in promotion of their May 24-26 Organic Trade Fair & Conference) to Yexie town in Songjiang District – and boy, was it a moneymaker (for them of course). The bus ride and organic vegetarian lunch was free for everyone who signed up for the tour in advance, but once I got there, I realized this was actually a very smart way of selling products. Essentially during the tour, the guides gave us an extended sales pitch, showing us the various greenhouses and facilities and talking to us about how naturally their products are grown. Then they proceeded to pushily sell us organic goods, which were pretty pricey even by American organic prices. On some level I was impressed- instead of having to deal with wary fruit vendors and shipping costs, they brought the customers to the “factory” instead.

Of course, I was one of the biggest suckers. I jumped at the chance to buy organic strawberries – a fruit that I hadn’t eaten in months due to the pesticide horror stories that I had heard from my Chinese relatives. There were a handful of street stands near my Shanghai residence that sold strawberries, but those were so cheaply priced and synthetically perfect-looking that I always felt a little nervous about buying them.  So amidst the tour guide’s loud shouts of how many boxes of “specially priced” strawberries there were left, I forked over a little less than 100 RMB to buy a .5 kilogram box of imperfect looking strawberries.

Buyer’s remorse did not even begin to describe my feelings over the next few days.

At this point, you might be thinking that I must have some sort of beef with Biofach and the whole “organic” industry. Quite the contrary though, I’m excited to see the beginnings of the organic craze sprout up in China and I really do appreciate what Biofach is trying to do in the grander scheme of things – promote organics and raise awareness about food safety among locals.

Anyway –

It shouldn’t have, but it came as a surprise to me that the majority of the participants in the Biofach Eco-tour were native Chinese, ranging from young families to curious elderly people. It was an adorable sight, seeing young Chinese toddlers excitedly playing with the goats on the farm and the elderly women toddle past the greenhouses, their eyes betraying their wonder at this “new technology”.  I did wince at one point though, when I saw a father feed his young daughter a strawberry – straight from the stem and completely unwashed – organic does not mean bacteria/problem free.

American Football Day

Hello Shanghai,

For all fans of American Football, it will be a great day on Sunday, May 20th from 2:00pm to 8:00pm.  The games will be held at Shanghai American School in Puxi.  Come see The China Sea Dragons youth American Football teams take on the Puxi Slayers.  The Juniors start at 2:00 and the Seniors start at 3:15.  Stay late and watch the Shanghai Nighthawks take on the Shanghai Warriors adult teams from 5:00 to 8:00.  There will be pizza and BBQ by Melrose Pizza and Bubba’s Texas BBQ.  So come out and support our teams and support the growth of American Football in China.

Man “Duh!” Rin with Mandarin Garden – Guanxi

NEWBIES who come to Shanghai for the first time, especially those who come here for business, have asked me about the idea of guanxi. Some people have the idea that guanxi is inexplicable word that can unlock the secrets of successful Chinese businessmen and women.

There are multiple definitions in Mandarin for this word, but the definition most discussed is that which pertains to relationships or connections. And the truth is that guanxi is a very important Chinese word to learn, because a lot of business and social interaction revolve around this concept. Here are the Chinese characters and an example. Below is a metaphor I got from a friend, and I think it explains the concept and its importance very well.

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关系

guānxì

“relationship” or “connections”

Mike 的 关系网不是很大, 在上海他需要花更多的时间去建人脉关系

Mike de guanxi wang bu shi hen da,
zai shanghai ta xu yao hua geng duode shijian qu jian renmai guanxi.

Mike’s guanxi in Shanghai is very young, he needs more time to build his guanxi.

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Some expats seem to understand guanxi as the same thing as networking, but it’s not quite that simple. Admittedly, learning about guanxi is an on-going process. But I had a conversation with a Shanghainese co-worker that made a lot of sense to me, so I thought I would share it.

When you are hungry and want to go out to eat, you have to choose a restaurant. Out of all the restaurants in Shanghai, you might try a new restaurant, which you’ve never been to, or you might go to a familiar restaurant that you like. If you’re hungry or trying to impress someone, you’ll probably choose to go with a place that you have tried, right?

The same preference applies to doing business with people. If you are working a deal, chances are you might choose to cooperate with someone you’ve done business with in the past. You could try someone new, but that comes with potential risk.

Guanxi is an indispensable concept to learn if you’re in China or thinking of coming to China. And if you’re learning Man “Duh!” Rin, look for ways to add this word to your everyday vocabulary!

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The End of an Era

When I arrived in Shanghai to teach ESL in late August I was a starry-eyed 24-year-old who had never lived abroad before. Having backpacked throughout Europe for a couple of months the summer beforehand I thought that I knew how culture shock felt. I soon started to question my entire concept of reality when I entered a bathroom in China that consisted of 10 holes in the ground and no walls or doors. Reality is a very fragile thing that can be set awry at the smallest abnormality.

My experience in Shanghai has been marked by multiple phases. The first stage which lasted for several months was the honeymoon phase: I was picking up Chinese fairly quickly and I was exulted by the opportunity to experience a different culture. The next phase that occurred during the Christmas holidays was slight homesickness and a desire to be around the familiar. Since then I have gradually made less mistakes in my day to day life and I’ve started to feel like this city is my home. My understanding of normality is now malleable and has undergone many shifts to accommodate my eastern domicile.

This blog entry, which happens to be my last, welcomes the beginning of a new phase in my Shanghai experience. I recently hit my eight month mark in China, which welcomed the transition from an ESL teacher into an international teacher recruiter. The past eight months have been filled with laughter, pride and frustrations in the classroom. Although it wasn’t always easy I’m so glad that I decided to come abroad to teach ESL. I’ve met some of the most interesting people I’ve ever encountered through teaching and I’ve discovered some of my own strengths. I no longer have a fear of speaking in front of groups or putting my knowledge on display.

One of the most significant observations that I’ve been offered through teaching abroad is a varied perspective on education. It was very interesting to experience another culture’s view on academia. Education, something that has become increasingly undervalued in America, is such a significant aspect of Chinese culture. I was also able to see the influence of my native tongue on people from around the world. The power of the English language was something that I had never quite understood until I taught abroad. It has become a bridge language that enables people from all over the world to connect with each other. I’ve never been especially good at learning other languages and I’ve never felt any need to push myself to be fluent. The diligence of all of my young Chinese students was awe-inspiring. Their desire to excel in their studies blew my mind daily. Being an esl teacher granted me a view into Chinese culture in a way that I never would have been granted otherwise. I was given a front row seat to the affects of the One Child Policy as well as the influence of western culture in the east.

Teaching ESL in China also allowed me to work with Chinese staff who helped me greatly when ‘ting bu dong’ and looks of utter confusion just weren’t cutting it. I’ve had the opportunity to travel to different cities around Shanghai with my Chinese friends who I met through work. I had a couple of my local coworkers on speed dial at the beginning, but our friendships have since evolved into normal symbiotic relationships. My frantic phone calls asking them to translate something for me has steadily dwindled. They were patient, incredibly helpful and generously shared their culture with me.

Unlike many other jobs that a Westerner can pursue in China, ESL teachers are in constant demand and they can live quite well. Teaching ESL allows one to save money, attain teaching experience and to be exposed to the fascinating culture of this nation. Most importantly, moving abroad has shown me the importance of maintaining a positive attitude. In the midst of challenges that arise, being open to learning from mistakes will allow you to gain wisdom from an experience. With my final ‘Teaching English’ entry I bid adieu to teaching ESL and welcome a new phase that will hopefully open up as many opportunities as my teaching position did for me. I know that coming here to teach ESL will affect my life forever, although I’m still gathering the pieces to figure out exactly how it will shape me.

EF English First is looking for dynamic, student-oriented English teachers who are serious about motivating students and having an impact on their lives. Positions are currently available in Shanghai, Beijing, Guangzhou & Shenzhen to teach either adults or young learners.

Teaching ESL is a REAL Job

A few months ago a 12-year-old girl made me cry. Shortly after dismissing class I was washing my hands in the bathroom when my assailant approached me and told me that she had something to tell me: “Melissa, you are not very interesting.” The blood started to rush to my face and I suddenly had a sour taste in my mouth. “Excuse me, that is not very nice of you. Maybe if you paid better attention in class then you would find it more interesting,” I responded. I had been having problems with this student for several months and had addressed both her and her grandmother about her behavioral issues. An otherwise very precocious child, the student’s behavior had suddenly changed from engaged to unruly in just a couple of months. She was no longer paying attention in class and despite my insistent reprimanding she had begun throwing things at the…  Read the Rest

Stereotyped: Young Shanghai Conservatives + Party-crazy Expats

As Family Mart’s prominent displays of attractively-packaged condoms at every checkout counter seem to suggest, China’s sexual revolution has arrived – but many natives allege that Shanghai is still pretty conservative when it comes to love and dating. Among the Shanghainese couples I know, a majority either claim to be either high school sweethearts or in their first relationship. Mind you, I associate mostly with university-aged Shanghainese, who have grown up in a highly internationalized environment. Despite their open-mindedness toward Western ideals though, these rather conservative Shanghainese youths are unaccustomed to going on double dates for fun, and would never dream of meeting a potential partner in a bar or club. On the expat side, I think it’s pretty normal to meet people of the opposite sex at a bar or club, and to date more for fun than to tie the knot (especially when you’re a fresh-faced twenty-something). Doing…  Read the Rest

The Trials and Joys of a Non-White ESL Teacher

Prior to arriving in China I was slightly terrified that I would be greatly discriminated against. Being half-black and half-white I was told by friends and other people who had worked in the countryside of China that I would have a difficult time teaching ESL as a non-white person. In preparation for my move I consulted an acquaintance about his experience teaching English in rural China 10 years earlier. As I was due to arrive in China only a couple of months later I was extremely excited about my potential adventure and I was looking for words of inspiration or some positive advice to set me on my way. Instead he insisted that I was going to have a lot of problems in the classroom because I wasn’t very fair skinned nor did I have blond hair and blue eyes. I was both upset by his negative response and weary…  Read the Rest

Man “Duh!” Rin with Mandarin Garden – Week 6-ish – I’m Back!!

I know it’s been a few weeks since my last blog post, so my apologies to the legions of people who are reading this. One week class was canceled because Vivian, wo de laoshi (my teacher), had a wedding (Jiehun) to go to. Ta de Jie men (her really good girlfriend) was getting married and Vivian was in the wedding. The next week wo sheng bing le (I was sick), so I couldn’t go to class. The week after that was a short week holiday and this week has been a world wind of catching up on work. Last week was my first full week back in the classroom, and it was really nice to get back. I have been using my Mandarin skills a lot more, but it really helps to get feedback on my pronunciation, grammar and word choice from Vivian. Over the past few classes we’ve been…  Read the Rest

The taxi-man chronicles

I hail from London and in London, everything is expensive, taxi rides being absolutely no exception. I love London cabs, there is something glorious about the spacious back, the fold down, backwards facing seats and the happy chappy in the front who knows London like an old weathered friend. Perhaps it’s the sense of exclusivity – no where else in the world has black cabs quite like the quintessential British ones; when I was younger my mum used to bribe me to ‘be a good girl’ with the promise of a short ride going nowhere in the back of a London cab. Fast forward through the wistful, nostalgia of life up smoke and boom…hello China!   One of the best things about life in China is the ease. For all of the complaining that we do about the difficulties caused by cultural misunderstanding, ridiculous beurocracy and just a hint of the ‘I have no…  Read the Rest