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Prequel Rants to the BioFach China Organic Trade Fair

I recently went on the Biofach Eco-tour (which is in promotion of their May 24-26 Organic Trade Fair & Conference) to Yexie town in Songjiang District – and boy, was it a moneymaker (for them of course). The bus ride and organic vegetarian lunch was free for everyone who signed up for the tour in advance, but once I got there, I realized this was actually a very smart way of selling products. Essentially during the tour, the guides gave us an extended sales pitch, showing us the various greenhouses and facilities and talking to us about how naturally their products are grown. Then they proceeded to pushily sell us organic goods, which were pretty pricey even by American organic prices. On some level I was impressed- instead of having to deal with wary fruit vendors and shipping costs, they brought the customers to the “factory” instead.

Of course, I was one of the biggest suckers. I jumped at the chance to buy organic strawberries – a fruit that I hadn’t eaten in months due to the pesticide horror stories that I had heard from my Chinese relatives. There were a handful of street stands near my Shanghai residence that sold strawberries, but those were so cheaply priced and synthetically perfect-looking that I always felt a little nervous about buying them.  So amidst the tour guide’s loud shouts of how many boxes of “specially priced” strawberries there were left, I forked over a little less than 100 RMB to buy a .5 kilogram box of imperfect looking strawberries.

Buyer’s remorse did not even begin to describe my feelings over the next few days.

At this point, you might be thinking that I must have some sort of beef with Biofach and the whole “organic” industry. Quite the contrary though, I’m excited to see the beginnings of the organic craze sprout up in China and I really do appreciate what Biofach is trying to do in the grander scheme of things – promote organics and raise awareness about food safety among locals.

Anyway –

It shouldn’t have, but it came as a surprise to me that the majority of the participants in the Biofach Eco-tour were native Chinese, ranging from young families to curious elderly people. It was an adorable sight, seeing young Chinese toddlers excitedly playing with the goats on the farm and the elderly women toddle past the greenhouses, their eyes betraying their wonder at this “new technology”.  I did wince at one point though, when I saw a father feed his young daughter a strawberry – straight from the stem and completely unwashed – organic does not mean bacteria/problem free.

American Football Day

Hello Shanghai,

For all fans of American Football, it will be a great day on Sunday, May 20th from 2:00pm to 8:00pm.  The games will be held at Shanghai American School in Puxi.  Come see The China Sea Dragons youth American Football teams take on the Puxi Slayers.  The Juniors start at 2:00 and the Seniors start at 3:15.  Stay late and watch the Shanghai Nighthawks take on the Shanghai Warriors adult teams from 5:00 to 8:00.  There will be pizza and BBQ by Melrose Pizza and Bubba’s Texas BBQ.  So come out and support our teams and support the growth of American Football in China.

Man “Duh!” Rin with Mandarin Garden – Guanxi

NEWBIES who come to Shanghai for the first time, especially those who come here for business, have asked me about the idea of guanxi. Some people have the idea that guanxi is inexplicable word that can unlock the secrets of successful Chinese businessmen and women.

There are multiple definitions in Mandarin for this word, but the definition most discussed is that which pertains to relationships or connections. And the truth is that guanxi is a very important Chinese word to learn, because a lot of business and social interaction revolve around this concept. Here are the Chinese characters and an example. Below is a metaphor I got from a friend, and I think it explains the concept and its importance very well.

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关系

guānxì

“relationship” or “connections”

Mike 的 关系网不是很大, 在上海他需要花更多的时间去建人脉关系

Mike de guanxi wang bu shi hen da,
zai shanghai ta xu yao hua geng duode shijian qu jian renmai guanxi.

Mike’s guanxi in Shanghai is very young, he needs more time to build his guanxi.

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Some expats seem to understand guanxi as the same thing as networking, but it’s not quite that simple. Admittedly, learning about guanxi is an on-going process. But I had a conversation with a Shanghainese co-worker that made a lot of sense to me, so I thought I would share it.

When you are hungry and want to go out to eat, you have to choose a restaurant. Out of all the restaurants in Shanghai, you might try a new restaurant, which you’ve never been to, or you might go to a familiar restaurant that you like. If you’re hungry or trying to impress someone, you’ll probably choose to go with a place that you have tried, right?

The same preference applies to doing business with people. If you are working a deal, chances are you might choose to cooperate with someone you’ve done business with in the past. You could try someone new, but that comes with potential risk.

Guanxi is an indispensable concept to learn if you’re in China or thinking of coming to China. And if you’re learning Man “Duh!” Rin, look for ways to add this word to your everyday vocabulary!

Mandarin Garden warmly welcomes students from all over the world. We are able to provide our students with the most professional study and service. If you have any comments or questions about this article, please send an email to: winnie@mandaringarden.org.

The End of an Era

When I arrived in Shanghai to teach ESL in late August I was a starry-eyed 24-year-old who had never lived abroad before. Having backpacked throughout Europe for a couple of months the summer beforehand I thought that I knew how culture shock felt. I soon started to question my entire concept of reality when I entered a bathroom in China that consisted of 10 holes in the ground and no walls or doors. Reality is a very fragile thing that can be set awry at the smallest abnormality.

My experience in Shanghai has been marked by multiple phases. The first stage which lasted for several months was the honeymoon phase: I was picking up Chinese fairly quickly and I was exulted by the opportunity to experience a different culture. The next phase that occurred during the Christmas holidays was slight homesickness and a desire to be around the familiar. Since then I have gradually made less mistakes in my day to day life and I’ve started to feel like this city is my home. My understanding of normality is now malleable and has undergone many shifts to accommodate my eastern domicile.

This blog entry, which happens to be my last, welcomes the beginning of a new phase in my Shanghai experience. I recently hit my eight month mark in China, which welcomed the transition from an ESL teacher into an international teacher recruiter. The past eight months have been filled with laughter, pride and frustrations in the classroom. Although it wasn’t always easy I’m so glad that I decided to come abroad to teach ESL. I’ve met some of the most interesting people I’ve ever encountered through teaching and I’ve discovered some of my own strengths. I no longer have a fear of speaking in front of groups or putting my knowledge on display.

One of the most significant observations that I’ve been offered through teaching abroad is a varied perspective on education. It was very interesting to experience another culture’s view on academia. Education, something that has become increasingly undervalued in America, is such a significant aspect of Chinese culture. I was also able to see the influence of my native tongue on people from around the world. The power of the English language was something that I had never quite understood until I taught abroad. It has become a bridge language that enables people from all over the world to connect with each other. I’ve never been especially good at learning other languages and I’ve never felt any need to push myself to be fluent. The diligence of all of my young Chinese students was awe-inspiring. Their desire to excel in their studies blew my mind daily. Being an esl teacher granted me a view into Chinese culture in a way that I never would have been granted otherwise. I was given a front row seat to the affects of the One Child Policy as well as the influence of western culture in the east.

Teaching ESL in China also allowed me to work with Chinese staff who helped me greatly when ‘ting bu dong’ and looks of utter confusion just weren’t cutting it. I’ve had the opportunity to travel to different cities around Shanghai with my Chinese friends who I met through work. I had a couple of my local coworkers on speed dial at the beginning, but our friendships have since evolved into normal symbiotic relationships. My frantic phone calls asking them to translate something for me has steadily dwindled. They were patient, incredibly helpful and generously shared their culture with me.

Unlike many other jobs that a Westerner can pursue in China, ESL teachers are in constant demand and they can live quite well. Teaching ESL allows one to save money, attain teaching experience and to be exposed to the fascinating culture of this nation. Most importantly, moving abroad has shown me the importance of maintaining a positive attitude. In the midst of challenges that arise, being open to learning from mistakes will allow you to gain wisdom from an experience. With my final ‘Teaching English’ entry I bid adieu to teaching ESL and welcome a new phase that will hopefully open up as many opportunities as my teaching position did for me. I know that coming here to teach ESL will affect my life forever, although I’m still gathering the pieces to figure out exactly how it will shape me.

EF English First is looking for dynamic, student-oriented English teachers who are serious about motivating students and having an impact on their lives. Positions are currently available in Shanghai, Beijing, Guangzhou & Shenzhen to teach either adults or young learners.

Logic and perception – An Authentic Experience

On traffic: During the university years, my good friend Jazzy fizz got run over by a push bike twice in as many weeks. I don’t believe I have to explain why this is utterly hilarious. Four years later I still feel the familiar rumbles of a gimpish giggle arise within me at the memory of her second frantic phone call, which essentially blamed the crack heads of Hull for her idiotic inability to look before she crosses the road…we’ve all seen the hedgehog advert, we all know the process, we all, by the age of 21, are able to apply said process to our general lives.Since moving to the Orient, a whole new meaning has been applied to ‘stop, look and listen’ and I can say with urgent certainty that lovely Yaz should NEVER venture to the East. On the way from the airport I was in a minor car accident…  Read the Rest

“Oh My Lady Gaga!”

If you’ve taught children in Shanghai for longer than two minutes you’ve come across the cultural phenomenon of: “oh my Lady Gaga!” The relevance of western pop culture on Chinese youth is evident in this comedic, strange, really cute expression of surprise. As the China Daily mentions in an article about the new term: “Chinese netizens have more faith in Lady Gaga than God, if the latest Internet slang is a pointer to the way China’s youth is thinking.” It’s interesting to be able to witness phrasal memes spread similarly to folk tales. “Oh my Lady Gaga” is not the only anglicized phrase that you’ll hear students creatively throw around in the classroom. Many of my students are obsessed with the term: “game over”. It serves as a euphemism for someone dying or it indicates the end of the lesson. My ambitious, diligent students are often occupied by homework in…  Read the Rest

Shanghai = more liberal than the West?

What makes a man gay? I couldn’t help wondering as I watched some SHEX forum posters make fun of a delicate looking Korean male celebrity as being “gay,” and derisively calling him names like “ladyboy.” Honestly, I wonder if I’m looking at the same picture because I can’t really tell a person’s sexual orientation by his or her looks – all I see is a malnourished Asian guy with seriously tousled hair, who needs to get some sun stat. Masculinity is so narrowly defined in the West that sometimes if I wonder if Asian cities like Shanghai are more “free” than their western counterparts on the basis of male looks alone. From my travels in East Asia, I have gotten the sense that generally feminine-looking men are treated as if they are presumably straight. I’ve seen completely heterosexual guys in Shanghai walk and sit closely together, and give hugs to…  Read the Rest

Don’t Cry over Spilled Noodles

The torch of ridiculous has taken on a distinctly greasy flavor, as I pass it precariously over to Shexpat Rebecca Wade, who will recount with splendor and a slightly irked tone, her most ridiculous moment of the week: Few things upset me in this country anymore. When first moving to China I was astounded by the juxtaposition of the overall cleanliness and dirtiness of the place. The city can afford to hire people who spend their days sweeping busy city streets, but can’t educate their citizens on containing their bodily fluids while riding the metro. I can deal with piles of trash. I can deal with walking on the street and smelling foul and indescribable smells. I can deal with people trying to run me over with their bicycle, pushing me on and off of metro trains at rush hour, and staring at me like I’m some sort of weird monkey….  Read the Rest

By George, I Think You’ve Got It!

While sitting in the classroom and observing my students I am often transported back to a time when I myself was in the classroom pretending to stay awake.   Sometimes I feel like a hypocrit when I get frustrated with my students for not doing their homework or paying attention. As an awkward 13-year-old I also hated doing my homework. Who am I to be disappointed in them for not doing what I ask them to do? It’s times like this that I try to change my thinking from the sympathetic older-sister to the teacher who tries to help the students perform at their best. There is one particular 8-year-old who I’ve been teaching for the past three months who has been the bane of my afternoons. He has never paid attention or made any attempt to meet me halfway in understanding. I’d dismissed the child as an unmotivated student with discipline issues. On…  Read the Rest