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otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 01:34 PM
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hi, my name is mike, a chinese man, 34, i am here to find a forgein woman who likes to hang out with me, or have a sex if it's alright for her.

to be perfectly honest i am married, my wife is studying abroad...

sex is not the only thing i can think of, in fact, i am really into american english, i would love to have female friends only for this purpose, and i could teach her chinese as a reward.

if you are interested, send a message to otl8888@gmail.com

mike

cantcheckemailnopw - Sep 26, 2008 - 01:47 PM
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how much is your salary ?

otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 01:50 PM
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hi, though i don't think it's to do with my salary, 40 grand rmb a month

otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 01:53 PM
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no, i don't need a hooker, that's not what i want, not only sex

Xiao_ou - Sep 26, 2008 - 02:34 PM
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woaihuan - Sep 26, 2008 - 02:43 PM
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Thinking it would be cool to have a foreign wife as a columbine?

Novelty would wear off quickly.

Swiss-James - Sep 26, 2008 - 02:49 PM
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woaihuan wrote:

Thinking it would be cool to have a foreign wife as a columbine?

This thread is gold!

woaihuan - Sep 26, 2008 - 02:53 PM
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I spelled that wrong, didn't I?

Google isn't helping me spell it right either.

Swiss-James - Sep 26, 2008 - 02:54 PM
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I think you were going for concubine.

Anyway, we'd both better clear off before the huge queue of women who like sleeping with married Chinese guys arrives.

woaihuan - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:00 PM
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Yup, concubine.

Something makes me think that the aforementioned women won't be queuing up - they're already busy PMing him.

I really can't see the appeal, though. It can't be that hard to get a Chinese guy for a foreign girl, and he doesn't seem to be offering any compensation, financially or otherwise.

otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:06 PM
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hey, don't be so mean, we are all human being and have same feelings, why'd you guys make such a boundary?

Swiss-James - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:11 PM
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You go for it Mike.

By the way, what happens when the wife comes back?

woaihuan - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:12 PM
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Regardless, you're asking basically asking for someone to cheat with while your wife is abroad.

Does your wife know?

tluong96 - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:13 PM
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with the salary you're on, how about you go visit your wife...or would that make too much sense...rather than come look for some woman and cheat on your wife

zerg - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:20 PM
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woaihuan wrote:

Regardless, you're asking basically asking for someone to cheat with while your wife is abroad.

Does your wife know?

Well..maybe it figures sth...a sad story...and a revenge

otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:21 PM
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i like tluong96's point, yes, i have done this twice. your westerns seem like much opener? i guess i am damned wrong, cheating sucks, can we forget about the sex part?

but i am not a bad man, believe it or not, you wouldn't regret to meet me if you still wanted to, i mean, for language learning part

Danzeth - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:23 PM
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Post a pic of yourself please.

zerg - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:32 PM
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40 grand a month...why not hire a foreigner secretary or pay for language 1to1 study...or u prefer ugly betty style

woaihuan - Sep 26, 2008 - 03:39 PM
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I wouldn't be against this if polygamy was legal, but unfortunately it isn't, so from what you've said, the foreign girl is kinda getting shafted - and not just literally.

otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 04:21 PM
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come on woaihuan, you made your point clearly, i said forget-out-the-sex-part, i am not a bad guy again, ok? i'd rather do it myself than getting a girl, you don't get it, don't you? it's not only about the bio-needs. my wife's away for like 2 years, and all of my friends are busy working... it's not that easy but i deal with it right

ladylady - Sep 26, 2008 - 04:51 PM
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otl8888 wrote:

i said forget-out-the-sex-part.....

ummm... we call that trying to shut the barn door after the horse is out. I mean you did mention having sex right there in your first sentence. It was very blatent.

It would be kind of hard for a women to believe you 'just want to be friends' now.

flyingwings - Sep 26, 2008 - 05:01 PM
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so let s say u finally find a western lady who wants to be with u for friends / sexual partner .. or ***** whatever thing...

then your wife comes back to you one day after **** years

then u realize that you start to like this western lady but not your wife .... or the western lady doesn't want let u go .... or your wife found out that...

how would you handle the complex in between? i m your are a 34 years old guy not 18 ... u should think that first before u do anything

otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 05:04 PM
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whatever it's called...you get what i meant...."ladylady"...you may know sometimes a crazy idea just jumps out...but the thing is to overcome that thought..whether to be a friend or not is up to that woman anyway...

otl8888 - Sep 26, 2008 - 05:11 PM
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is there an end? "flyingwings"..yes i am the one to blame...but i've stopped this freaking idea...

maybe it's completely wrong getting to know you westerners from your episodes, ladies here have already been planted the chinese mindset

age 34 also makes mistakes...except blaming or mocking...is there nothing else i can hear?..sometimes...we are all such idiots

flyingwings - Sep 26, 2008 - 05:19 PM
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well..no need to get mad...

it is a thread so everybody contributes here, i just saw it...and write something..

chill out dude..

u do whatever you want...

flyingwings - Sep 26, 2008 - 05:21 PM
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by the way ... obama and mccain has an end...but not this threads ... haha

p1atl10 - Sep 26, 2008 - 05:35 PM
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otl8888 wrote:

OP...you might want to consider the delete button, wait a week, sign in again under a new name....and just go the friendship route.

Doubt very much if the abuse on this thread has an end in site.

Doubt that it should....

Whatever your intentions then ot now, ....here's how it came out:

"Hi...I am a lonely, unfaithful, cheating Chinese man and want to f--k a white women while my wife is not around...."

Try again.....

CK1 - Sep 26, 2008 - 05:40 PM
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Hello,

I am Mike wife.

I check this website first time today I see me husband want boom boom sexy laowai lady.

I cry so much now wah wah wah.

I now go down to hotel bar and find big-ah big-ah black man to make me feel good-ah again.

I think after i go do Africa bambata I have bi like grand canyon.

woaihuan - Sep 26, 2008 - 06:36 PM
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Meh, to the OP, it's not like you'll have that much trouble. Just take a shine to a few western girls on the street, buy them a drink and they'll be in your bed before the drinks arrive.

White women are desperate in Shanghai, since all the white guys know better than to date them. At least, that's what the white women on this forum tend to believe.

bloomark - Sep 26, 2008 - 08:55 PM
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Man, finding yourself a concubine while your wife is not around is nothing unreasonable, but the intention to spam on this site is kind of cheating everyone.

For more advices, better you go off to the PIT and resort to Dr. UnderHole for some enlightment. I assure you that he'll leave you some tips of wisdom from his grievous and mischievous experience. You ain't gonna regret.

Distick - Sep 27, 2008 - 01:37 AM
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at least the man is honest upfront.......

boywonder - Sep 27, 2008 - 03:00 AM
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where are the ladies in this thread?

cosmoandme - Sep 27, 2008 - 12:03 PM
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otl8888 wrote:

Were you on Xinhua and Zhong shan xi lu at 7:30 ( 19:30) on 2 nights ago??? This Chinese guy pulled out his wee wee on me. what is you??? He was wearing a black and white short ...Cured my week long headache but........ Shocked

skyline5k - Sep 27, 2008 - 04:51 PM
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have a sex if it's alright for her

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and i could teach her chinese as a reward.

The pure generosity is astounding!

Goosie - Sep 28, 2008 - 05:43 PM
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Notice all the white chicks posting on this thread, just dying for a piece of the action here. Rolling Eyes

Jesus f*cking christ. Where do these morons come from????

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