Commodore wrote:Draracle wrote:I dated a wealthy HKer for 3 years, her and her family were hilariously and extremely racist towards Mainlanders. On every conceivable level.
Racist or realistic?
I experienced the same thing in HK, but not only towards mainlanders. And there's plenty of openly expressed racism in China, too. In HK, for example, the slang word for Indian means "dirty" in Cantonese. And that's how Indians are widely viewed in HK. Similarly, some in both China and HK are openly pro-Chinese in a racist way. They think nothing of speaking in front of other races about how clever and superior Chinese are.
But HK discrimination against mainlanders isn't technically racism, though I believe it has the same roots - tribalism, which is universal . . . at least as far as we know.
I think it's perfectly acceptable to discriminate against others because of their behaviour. If you don't approve of people smoking in a non-smoking area, spitting publicly, shouting in a restaurant, etc., there's no reason why you shouldn't express your disapproval in ways that aren't equally offensive.
But there are many Chinese in Shanghai who are polite, cultured and well-behaved. Some expats include all Chinese in their condemnations, not on the basis of behaviour, but simply on the basis of ethnicity. That IS racist and unacceptable, no matter who does it or to whom.
Everyone is an individual and has a right to be treated as one, on the basis of what they do and how they behave, not on the basis of their ethnicity or membership in any group.











