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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 1:34 pm

hi, my name is mike, a chinese man, 34, i am here to find a forgein woman who likes to hang out with me, or have a sex if it's alright for her.

to be perfectly honest i am married, my wife is studying abroad...

sex is not the only thing i can think of, in fact, i am really into american english, i would love to have female friends only for this purpose, and i could teach her chinese as a reward.

if you are interested, send a message to otl8888@gmail.com

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Postby cantcheckemailnopw » Fri Sep 26, 2008 1:47 pm

how much is your salary ?
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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 1:50 pm

hi, though i don't think it's to do with my salary, 40 grand rmb a month
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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 1:53 pm

no, i don't need a hooker, that's not what i want, not only sex
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Postby Xiao_ou » Fri Sep 26, 2008 2:34 pm

:shock:
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Postby woaihuan » Fri Sep 26, 2008 2:43 pm

Thinking it would be cool to have a foreign wife as a columbine?

Novelty would wear off quickly.
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Postby Swiss-James » Fri Sep 26, 2008 2:49 pm

woaihuan wrote:Thinking it would be cool to have a foreign wife as a columbine?



This thread is gold!
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Postby woaihuan » Fri Sep 26, 2008 2:53 pm

I spelled that wrong, didn't I?

Google isn't helping me spell it right either.
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Postby Swiss-James » Fri Sep 26, 2008 2:54 pm

I think you were going for concubine.

Anyway, we'd both better clear off before the huge queue of women who like sleeping with married Chinese guys arrives.
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Postby woaihuan » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:00 pm

Yup, concubine.

Something makes me think that the aforementioned women won't be queuing up - they're already busy PMing him.

I really can't see the appeal, though. It can't be that hard to get a Chinese guy for a foreign girl, and he doesn't seem to be offering any compensation, financially or otherwise.
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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:06 pm

hey, don't be so mean, we are all human being and have same feelings, why'd you guys make such a boundary?
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Postby Swiss-James » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:11 pm

You go for it Mike.

By the way, what happens when the wife comes back?
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Postby woaihuan » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:12 pm

Regardless, you're asking basically asking for someone to cheat with while your wife is abroad.

Does your wife know?
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Postby tluong96 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:13 pm

with the salary you're on, how about you go visit your wife...or would that make too much sense...rather than come look for some woman and cheat on your wife
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Postby zerg » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:20 pm

woaihuan wrote:Regardless, you're asking basically asking for someone to cheat with while your wife is abroad.

Does your wife know?


Well..maybe it figures sth...a sad story...and a revenge
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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:21 pm

i like tluong96's point, yes, i have done this twice. your westerns seem like much opener? i guess i am damned wrong, cheating sucks, can we forget about the sex part?

but i am not a bad man, believe it or not, you wouldn't regret to meet me if you still wanted to, i mean, for language learning part
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Postby Danzeth » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:23 pm

Post a pic of yourself please.
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Postby zerg » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:32 pm

40 grand a month...why not hire a foreigner secretary or pay for language 1to1 study...or u prefer ugly betty style
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Postby woaihuan » Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:39 pm

I wouldn't be against this if polygamy was legal, but unfortunately it isn't, so from what you've said, the foreign girl is kinda getting shafted - and not just literally.
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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 4:21 pm

come on woaihuan, you made your point clearly, i said forget-out-the-sex-part, i am not a bad guy again, ok? i'd rather do it myself than getting a girl, you don't get it, don't you? it's not only about the bio-needs. my wife's away for like 2 years, and all of my friends are busy working... it's not that easy but i deal with it right
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Postby ladylady » Fri Sep 26, 2008 4:51 pm

otl8888 wrote:i said forget-out-the-sex-part.....


ummm... we call that trying to shut the barn door after the horse is out. I mean you did mention having sex right there in your first sentence. It was very blatent.

It would be kind of hard for a women to believe you 'just want to be friends' now.
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Postby flyingwings » Fri Sep 26, 2008 5:01 pm

so let s say u finally find a western lady who wants to be with u for friends / sexual partner .. or ***** whatever thing...

then your wife comes back to you one day after **** years

then u realize that you start to like this western lady but not your wife .... or the western lady doesn't want let u go .... or your wife found out that...

how would you handle the complex in between? i m your are a 34 years old guy not 18 ... u should think that first before u do anything
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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 5:04 pm

whatever it's called...you get what i meant...."ladylady"...you may know sometimes a crazy idea just jumps out...but the thing is to overcome that thought..whether to be a friend or not is up to that woman anyway...
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Postby otl8888 » Fri Sep 26, 2008 5:11 pm

is there an end? "flyingwings"..yes i am the one to blame...but i've stopped this freaking idea...

maybe it's completely wrong getting to know you westerners from your episodes, ladies here have already been planted the chinese mindset

age 34 also makes mistakes...except blaming or mocking...is there nothing else i can hear?..sometimes...we are all such idiots
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Postby flyingwings » Fri Sep 26, 2008 5:19 pm

well..no need to get mad...

it is a thread so everybody contributes here, i just saw it...and write something..

chill out dude..

u do whatever you want...
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