caisghost wrote:

zhaopeng wrote:

caisghost wrote:How would you feel if I refused to give you a BJ? You'd be pissed that I wasn't GGG, right? And maybe offended that I thought it's disgusting?

1) Most of us don't just want an orgasm. That's what vibrators are for.

2) Even if we did, PIV sex doesn't help a significant number of us get there. (Hence, vibrators.) A lot of womenjust fake having one to make men feel more secure in their masculinity.

3) Most Western women someone who appreciates our bodies and is secure with their masculinity. And if you're creeped out by a vayjayjay, then you're probably not it.

4) If a man is not willing to go down on a girl, he isn't GGG. And who wants a selfish blowup doll for a boyfriend?

A lot of my Western friends have DTMFA because of this. They say it's because they're "not compatible," but don't say it's due to a lack of sexual compatibility to save the guy's self-esteem.

Easy sweetheart, for the record, I personally never beg any of my girls to blow me if she doesn't want to.
It's nothing about respect or so, it's merely personal preference, like you know some guys fancy booties, some stick to boobies.

By the way, what GGG?

Re-read my post. I never said that you begged a girl to blow you. I just said that you'd probably be pissed, offended, think she was a prude or think wasn't very good in bed. Not coincidentally, this is what most Western women think of Chinese men when they won't have oral sex with them.

And it's not just a personal preference. It's a personal preference that exists because the guy is pretty grossed out by women's bodies at a pretty fundamental level. It also means that sex is all about his pleasure -- not hers. And that's not a basis for a healthy sexual relationship.

GGG == Good, Giving, and Game. If men don't like performing oral sex on women, the vast majority of Western women will think they are not good, giving, and game. (There is a FTF exclusion -- fetish too far -- but oral sex isn't covered by it.)

Read Dan Savage's advice column for more.

Monkey Doo wrote:Bob's terrified of vaginas

Monkey Doo wrote:Bob's terrified of vaginas

Bobchina wrote:

Monkey Doo wrote:Bob's terrified of vaginas

-\dumb

NorthernLights wrote:there's no way in hell I'd force a guy to go down

NorthernLights wrote: But if it's a case of they don't like being down there for other reasons

tylerdurden wrote:I find that if you're doing it well, you don't have to do it for long. You get a tug on the head and have to move on to the next phase, because she wants it RIGHT NOW.

ultimatekrang wrote:

NorthernLights wrote: But if it's a case of they don't like being down there for other reasons

heres a tip: wash.

more guys will be willing to go down if it doesnt smell like a 3 day old mcfishburger

NorthernLights wrote:
Yes it's good (if done well, bad oral is just, well, bad.) However there's no way in hell I'd force a guy to go down. It's certainly not something I expect. Appreciate? sure. But there's no better way to ensure "bad sex" than to make someone do something they are uncomfortable with. If it's a simple case of they don't know what to do and are afraid of **** it up, then with time and love they can be taught. But if it's a case of they don't like being down there for other reasons (the male equivalent of fugz) then you can't force it.

NorthernLights wrote:wouldn't you love to know wabbit!

there's a difference between forcing a guy who is willing and forcing a guy who isn't...

You never know, maybe zhaopeng was tied down and sat on by a girl who eats worse than fugz... That would probably put me off for life too.

NorthernLights wrote:Interesting conversation...

I don't see why caisghost is getting so uppity though.

Yes it's good (if done well, bad oral is just, well, bad.) However there's no way in hell I'd force a guy to go down. It's certainly not something I expect.

Appreciate? sure. But there's no better way to ensure "bad sex" than to make someone do something they are uncomfortable with. If it's a simple case of they don't know what to do and are afraid of **** it up, then with time and love they can be taught.

jessie5511 wrote:hey guys, im just curious that how is it the sex with European girls and chinese girls. I mean generally my personal idea is that european seems to look much more sexy than chinese, the way they look like, the eyes, the style, the smell, the behavior. Then why still so many guys enjoy sex with chinese(normal chinese)

For those fashion, styled, well educated naughty chinese girls, is there any big difference with western girls when they r on bed?

caisghost wrote:That's what vibrators are for.

wolfyx wrote:

caisghost wrote:That's what vibrators are for.

I hope you are happily married with your vibrator. No man in his right mind would ever want you, whether he is Western, Chinese or Eskimo…