and thank you for providing such good platform for people to link together!
however, i think it's the minorities(women and youth)are talking now! for instance, the Wednesday at Malone's seems to be for guy-oriented bar-going type(no objections), and moms, working or not working, probably not able to go to the Saturday coffee meeting because of kids, so a kind of group for them will be formed which they have subjects in common.
One thing off this topic: I posted a question to you on the speed of this website, recently I found out the speed has been improved. Did you change ISP again? or did you use proxy server? or should I ask this question in another forum?
