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Where have all the cool people gone?

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Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby AnnieTC » Wed Feb 15, 2012 12:58 pm

Ok... so, I used to live in a place where I met all those cool people, I mean, they all dress coolly, DIYed clothes or second hands, they have nice tattoos, dreadlocks or colorful hairs, a lot of them are vegetarians, they love cultures, music and art, they all try hard to learn Chinese and try their best to interact with locals despite the frustration they get from time to time. Girls don't make up or dress up desperately to impress a guy and guys are not that pretentious from all the attention they get. Just simply cool people to hang out with, play jam session with, drink and chat with... I seldom see them here. Do they exist in Shanghai ? Or am I just hanging in wrong places so I don't meet them?
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby tao_tao » Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:13 pm

People with dreads are not cool, they are relaxed.
People with colorful hair are mostly punks (like in punk-rock) which are very lively and way too outgoing, so the oposite of cool.
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All in all, where I come from, you would call the place you describe as "University" :lol: Maybe try those ...

Or you try M1nt or M2, I heard people there are uber-cool.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby kamala » Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:22 pm

they grew up.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby rickettyrabbit » Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:24 pm

We're still here . . . .

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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby AnnieTC » Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:27 pm

tao_tao wrote:People with dreads are not cool, they are relaxed.
People with colorful hair are mostly punks (like in punk-rock) which are very lively and way too outgoing, so the oposite of cool.
...
All in all, where I come from, you would call the place you describe as "University" :lol: Maybe try those ...

Or you try M1nt or M2, I heard people there are uber-cool.


By "cool" I mean, they're open to new things, dare to dress differently and don't follow the mainstream. But those people I met are not just university students, some of them are in their 30s already.

I have the impression that young people here just want to get drunk and laid... Though that said, I did meet one or two "cool" uni students on short-term exchange from time to time, unfortunately they stay 1 or 2 months only. :(
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby AnnieTC » Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:31 pm

rickettyrabbit wrote:We're still here . . . .

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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby tao_tao » Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:37 pm

AnnieTC wrote:By "cool" I mean, they're open to new things, dare to dress differently and don't follow the mainstream.

Understood. Btw., did you ever realize that nearly all the people who want to dress differently dress the same?
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby rickettyrabbit » Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:57 pm

Oh, the tyranny of conformist non-conformity.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby AnnieTC » Wed Feb 15, 2012 2:18 pm

tao_tao wrote:
AnnieTC wrote:By "cool" I mean, they're open to new things, dare to dress differently and don't follow the mainstream.

Understood. Btw., did you ever realize that nearly all the people who want to dress differently dress the same?


Of course. Though if you dress DIYed or second hand vintage... you are less likely to dress the same, maybe a bit similar style yes, but not exactly the same piece.
That's why I said it's not just look, but also their mentality and interest. Dressing says something but not all.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby koko_k » Wed Feb 15, 2012 7:51 pm

Well I suppose you mean "alternative" or "new age" as opposed to cool or whatever else. Coloured hair doesn't mean you're a punk or into rock music Tao_Tao.

I can't imagine Shanghai having an alt scene.. Maybe I'm wrong. If I am I want to find it.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby tao_tao » Wed Feb 15, 2012 7:55 pm

Of course. Colored hair can just mean your a girl ...
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby pudongchap » Wed Feb 15, 2012 8:03 pm

Beijing - more style, less money.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby jesslsk » Mon Feb 20, 2012 3:20 pm

I've seen most of those species around Yunan and t¡bet province...
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby tihZ_hO » Tue Feb 21, 2012 7:58 am

AnnieTC wrote:By "cool" I mean, they're open to new things, dare to dress differently and don't follow the mainstream. But those people I met are not just university students, some of them are in their 30s already.


Oh THOSE... :roll:

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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby Humac » Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:13 am

This thread is about life in the 1970s, right? 8)
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby caso » Wed Feb 22, 2012 9:49 am

All the cool people you are talking about probably just grew up, quit the fake rebellion and wear suits to go to office 9-18 every day. try any lujiazui office...
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby jzzzzzzz » Wed Feb 22, 2012 9:58 am

Sounds like you are looking for crusties. I saw a couple in Annamaya in the FC last time I was there.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby minyanville » Wed Feb 22, 2012 10:40 am

AnnieTC wrote:Ok... so, I used to live in a place where I met all those cool people, I mean, they all dress coolly, DIYed clothes or second hands, they have nice tattoos, dreadlocks or colorful hairs, a lot of them are vegetarians, they love cultures, music and art, they all try hard to learn Chinese and try their best to interact with locals despite the frustration they get from time to time. Girls don't make up or dress up desperately to impress a guy and guys are not that pretentious from all the attention they get. Just simply cool people to hang out with, play jam session with, drink and chat with... I seldom see them here. Do they exist in Shanghai ? Or am I just hanging in wrong places so I don't meet them?


Those were called hippies before.
Now, people are calling them hipsters.
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby btb » Wed Feb 22, 2012 10:50 am

they left the earth due to global warming
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby rickettyrabbit » Wed Feb 22, 2012 11:39 am

Well, not quite. They left the normal earth and went to San Francisco.

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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby FrmBraziltoShanghai » Sat Feb 25, 2012 11:06 pm

they graduated from high school
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Re: Where have all the cool people gone?

Postby jLee89 » Mon Feb 27, 2012 12:24 am

sounds like people that smoke weed.
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