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why are so few chinese men dating western women?

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why are so few chinese men dating western women?

Postby MET » Sun Jul 05, 2009 2:14 am

Hi there!

I just moved to shanghai this week and one of the things i noticed right away is..
chinese girls seem to like dating western guys, but the other way around?? nada, it seems to me..

so what's up with that? i mean..chinese girls date western men cause they're cute/rich/exotic or whatever. but what's not to like about western women? or do western women dislike chinese men? or did i miss the millions of dates between them?

just curious :)

met

oh ps my chinese colleage thinks its western men that like to date the girls and not the other way around..because..chinese girls are smaller..down there :roll:
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Postby findus » Sun Jul 05, 2009 5:57 am

SEARCH FUNCTION!

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Re: why are so few chinese men dating western women?

Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 7:24 am

MET wrote:because..chinese girls are smaller..down there :roll:
well they're also smaller up there, so u win some and lose some...
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:08 am

Depends what you're into, alligator.

:wink:

MET - I think the aesthetic attraction between white man and Chinese woman is mutual but not vice versa. I'm also told that Chinese men find western women intimidating. It's like, join the freakin' club.
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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:22 am

^ i like 'em big up top, thin in da middle, and round down bottom. what's your style, buckley?

in fact, my baby rocks F-cups, tyvm. she's chinese, btw.
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Postby bloomark » Sun Jul 05, 2009 12:37 pm

I prefer measurements 90-60-90.
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Postby MET » Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:22 pm

he morTon, what do you mean..do other chinese men think its cool if someone western woman?
why really?
i guess its just a habit of not being used to even talk to foreigners
and i can see why chinese guys are maybe not into dating someone twice as tall/big as they are..
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:33 pm

8lrr8 wrote:^ i like 'em big up top, thin in da middle, and round down bottom. what's your style, buckley?

in fact, my baby rocks F-cups, tyvm. she's chinese, btw.


My "style" ain't the same as yours.

8)

F-cups? Ugh. That sounds revolting.
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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:50 pm

ziccawei wrote:My "style" ain't the same as yours.
u dont say...
ziccawei wrote:F-cups? Ugh. That sounds revolting.
well, she can fit into DD's half the time, does that change your view? :D
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:55 pm

Not really into the 'Flying Squirrel' look myself, alligator, but you go for it, pal.

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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 4:00 pm

^ your encouragement is appreciated.

judging by the # of double-takes she gets when we're on the street, i'm def not the only 1 luvin' it. 8)
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 5:17 pm

Assuming they're double-takes of appreciation, right?

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Postby MET » Sun Jul 05, 2009 5:42 pm

hmm haha so my chinese colleage also said another thing: chinese men don't care about breasts or a nice ass..they like a nice face.

haha seriously??

i can see that they don't go for XL cause its not that common (or taken away by those foreigners ( ; ) but whatever size..they wouldnt just look at a face.

anyways its nice to be able to say for me that men are the ones acting complicated instead of the other way around :D
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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 5:49 pm

ziccawei wrote:Assuming they're double-takes of appreciation, right?

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or lust. either or, i'm luving it, buckley.
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 6:02 pm

MET wrote:hmm haha so my chinese colleage also said another thing: chinese men don't care about breasts or a nice ass..they like a nice face.

haha seriously??

i can see that they don't go for XL cause its not that common (or taken away by those foreigners ( ; ) but whatever size..they wouldnt just look at a face.

anyways its nice to be able to say for me that men are the ones acting complicated instead of the other way around :D


MET, people like alligator go for the type of Chinese chicks that most Chinese guys - or foreign guys for that matter - have no interest in. These chunky farmers daughters with bodies like medium-sized refrigerators. Not my cup of tea at all.

Chinese girls often have great legs. No THAT is something that I am "luvvin".

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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 6:44 pm

ziccawei wrote:These chunky farmers daughters with bodies like medium-sized refrigerators. Not my cup of tea at all.
at her thinnest my baby was ~93lbs. now she's topping 105lb. at 165cm height, buckley.

OH THE HORROR!!

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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 7:57 pm

Eww...

Is her hometown near a nuclear power station?

Because she sounds kind of deformed.


Have with your 'baby'.



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Postby Andreas » Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:01 pm

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Postby victorinchina » Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:06 pm

And guys dig nice tits...

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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:24 pm

ziccawei wrote:Eww...

Is her hometown near a nuclear power station?

Because she sounds kind of deformed.

Have with your 'baby'.

:wink:
hydroelectric power plant, actually.

close but no cigar, buckley.
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 10:45 pm

I don't suck on big cigars, accelerator.

I reckon you probably do though.


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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 10:58 pm

^ cigars arent meant to be sucked on, buckley.
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 11:07 pm

How can I argue with your professional experience of "smoking" "cigars", alalalala88rrr888er?

Rent don't pay itself, right, sweetcheeks?

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Postby 8lrr8 » Sun Jul 05, 2009 11:18 pm

^ i've smoked 2 or 3 in my life, the novelty wore off quickly. plus they're no good for my 400m sprinting ability.
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Postby ziccawei » Sun Jul 05, 2009 11:20 pm

HAHAHA!!!

That's your best post so far!!

Excellent!

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Postby btb » Mon Jul 06, 2009 3:20 am

^ unless you are a girl.
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Postby 8lrr8 » Mon Jul 06, 2009 6:54 am

ziccawei wrote:HAHAHA!!!

That's your best post so far!!

Excellent!

:lol: :lol: :lol:
not even close, buckley.

cho!! :party::
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Postby ziccawei » Mon Jul 06, 2009 7:24 am

Cho my black ass....



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Postby 8lrr8 » Mon Jul 06, 2009 8:43 am

do u aspire to be black, buckley?
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